Win Him Back - Tips To Get Your Ex Boyfriend's Attention

You don't want to make the mistake of begging your ex to come back after a split up. Make use of these 3 proven tips to win him back and aid your likelihood of getting back together instead...

Tip #1: Don't bombard your ex boyfriend with emotions.

Naturally, men aren’t good with emotions. for that reason, begging your ex boyfriend, letting him know exactly how you feel and constantly behaving desperate, is going to just pressure him and make him pull back. Try and understand: If handling your own feelings is not easy for you, it is even more confusing for him.

Tip #2: For the time being stop all contact with your ex boyfriend.

I suggest you stop getting in touch with him for one week. Giving him space is a key to winning him back, since you need to give him an opportunity to miss you. If you are always begging for his attention he can't do this. Win him back by getting him to miss you instead. In addition, he needs some time to work out the problems in your relationship, therefore don't pressure him. Act opposite from conventional women and he is going to think you are unique.

I won't lie. Doing this is easier said than done. When you feel lonely or miss him, you are going to want to get in touch with him. However don't. Take things gradually and figure out the subsequently tip...

Tip #3: Give your ex boyfriend space, to come up with a good plan to win him back.

When you stop contacting your ex boyfriend for one week, you won't be doing nothing. You are going to need to work out a plan and strategies to

    * improve your communication skills,
    * work on stabilizing your feelings,
    * examine what led to the break up, etc.

There are proven strategies to win back the heart of your ex boyfriend. However if you are spending all your time trying to use the words "I'm sorry" and begging him, "We can figure it out", "I'll change", etc, rather than finding out more about how to work to get yourself better, you are going to fail to win and keep him for good. Treat this breakup as a chance to find out more about you two. Resolve any fundamental problems as the quality of any relationship relies on the quality of the people in it.

I hope these tips on how to win him back helped you begin thinking of how to do things in a different way. Find out tips from those who have experience, stay positive, and you are going to succeed.