Your new girl - will your friends except or reject her?

Aug 18
15:37

2009

Matt Fuller

Matt Fuller

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http://www.hookmeup.com.au/ Your new girlfriend is just amazing, she's fun, sexy and great to be around. You also have a close bunch of friends, and their approval of your new sweetheart is of the essence.

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When completely different worlds collide,Your new girl - will your friends except or reject her? Articles it sets the scene for new and exciting times, or, you run the risk of setting up the clash of the titans. Of course your ultimate outcome for introducing your new girl to your friends is for reciprocal acceptance and hoping she fits in and gets on well with the other girlfriends. It's pretty common to experience some anxiety before turning up to a party for the first time with her and your friends anticipating the big entrance.

Having close and reliable friends can be a very valuable asset in life, as equally important, a compatible lover has the potential to complete the crucial missing void in your life, so in a perfect world the complete outcome would be for your friends and your girl to get along, so managing their interactions is pretty important to finished the picture.

Certainly, this perfect scenario isn't always possible. Quite often, if the new girl you're dating is taking up all of your spare time, it may be a bit hard to take for your friends who could start to resent her and become jealous, perhaps they are simply looking out for what's best for you and are being a little protective. Depending on how you deal with such opposition from your friends, this can make or break your new relationship and the time will eventually come for you to have to address this clash of worlds as your girl starts to question your commitment.

You have known your friends probably substantially longer than the girl you're dating, so in theory, you will all have things in common. So when she doesn't get on with your friends, chances are she will also clash with you. If you have a close mate that hasn't moved out of Mum and Dads house yet and pays his board/rent by taking out the rubbish once a week or doing the odd bit of gardening then your lady should have a cause for some concern if this friend has a strong influence on you. Alternatively, if you're happy keeping your regular once a fortnight traditional Sunday fishing trip in tact but she's trying to whisk you off to Sunday brunch with the in-laws and break up your fishing tradition, then you should watch out!

Many new couples make the mistake of trying to change their partners routines and habit. Whilst a healthy compromise is essential for any relationship to work, don't make the grave mistake of trying to change something that is important to your partner.

A good way to weigh up compatibility is to search for singles online. Online dating sites provide members with detailed profiles about each of the other members. Online dating gives singles the unique opportunity to let your gut feeling make decisions for you before there is an emotional attachment suchlike conventional dating.

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