Are you searching your relations in the bazaar of views and emotions

Oct 27
07:42

2011

Ranganathan

Ranganathan

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Do you know the meaning of the statement ‘right but not right’?  It may sound funny how something can be ‘right but not right’?  Many things in our real life are like that.  They appear right or correct but are in real sense neither right nor correct. 

Swami Sukhabodhananda in his Gita discourse unfolded the meaning of how things can be real but not real?   When a letter is sent to a corporate without mentioning the right department or section to which it is suppose to reach,Are you searching your relations in the bazaar of views and emotions Articles the letter may land the right place but will not reach the right person or department.  Hence even after reaching the right place, no response or reply would come.

If one see or define the right from one angle, it need not be right from another angle.  Hence the right has to be defined or derived only from the ‘intent’ and the ‘expected result or response’.  If the effort is not meeting the intent or the target, it is like writing on the surface of water as one would keep writing but none could read it.   

This is true with our real life also.  In the world of boundless beauty and sublime spirit in which we live, we will not able to see or receive or appreciate either the beauty or the liveliness if the right doors in us are not opened.  

Always the subjective truth/reality or interpretation is superimposed on the objective truth/reality or interpretation.  Thereby a mere object could become the source of our happiness or sorrow.  When the object disappears, both the sorrow and happiness also would vanish.  

The question to be asked by mankind is that whether they are seeing, meeting and interacting/relating with people also in the same manner.  In most occasions, people try to meet their ‘opinion’ or their ‘views’ only with others.  If not they love to meet at the intellect level.  In most occasions they also attempt to meet at the emotional level. 

In all the above situations, they become very judgmental.  They judge whether their opinions or views are well understood, appreciated and accepted.  If such expectation is not met with, automatically they reject the person.  This is also true with meeting at the intellect level. 

In the case of emotional meeting, buying and selling of the emotions will be the key intent and only when a good business of ‘emotions’ is possible, the relation would continue. 

Unfortunately, people miss the very essence of meeting with others.  They should try to meet at the being level; one being is meeting another being. 

When meeting takes place at the being level, only respect and love predominates or prevails and not the expectations and validation.   The confusion and commotion between people is mainly due to their attempt in building relationship in a right but not right way.  If people learn the art of building relation with others with the feeling of one being with other, instead of noise music only will flow.     

Allow life to see life when you meet others and do not attempt meet people from your subjective zone.

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