5 Reasons Your Boyfriend Goes To Strip Clubs

It's no secret that lots of guys adore going to strip clubs. Some women are fine with their boyfriend or hubby going to get an eyeful while others can't tolerate the thought. There's a wise old saying that says "It doesn't matter where people get their appetizers as longs as they come home to eat." Every living human being likes to look around at beautiful things and members of the opposite sex often fall into that category. Men are especially hardwired to be visual beings and are drawn to peer at dancing women, naked or clothed. The girlfriends and wives who get quite upset and jealous will probably need to lighten up because most straight men are going to check out female nudity any chance they get. Relax, it won't necessarily interfere with your relationship unless your guy goes multiple nights each week or you've been especially neglectful of him lately. Here are 5 common reasons your man likes sitting in a club watching strange women shed their clothing:

1) Eye candy: Going to a museum or art gallery full of beautiful objects is a treat for the eyes. It creates richness, stokes appreciation and instigates creativity. Art objects, interesting artifacts and dancing nudes are all candy for the eye. Even strolling through Crate & Barrel or Pottery Barn falls into the visual confection category.

2) Male bonding: Guys often go have a few cocktails at the girly shows with their buds. Nothing cements platonic male friendships like sharing a few pints and manly entertainment with one's buddies.

3) Lonely: If a guy is single, out of town a lot and away from his girlfriend or wife, or basically longing for female companionship, this is a ready-made way to achieve pseudo-companionship. Yes, there's no touching allowed except for lap dances, but it can surely fill a need in a pinch. If you've been neglectful or mad at your guy friend a lot lately, he may still be lonely even if you sit across the dinner table from him every night. If this is the case, you might want to consider being a bit more attentive to him if you want to keep him in your life.

4) Bachelor parties: Many men end up at strip clubs because that's where the bachelor parties are being held. What better venue for ogling naked women before one's marriage ceremony than watching a striptease at a club?

5) Mad at you: If you've been cranky and naggy lately, your man might have had just about enough. In order to make themselves feel better, many disgruntled husbands and boyfriends end up in clubs, chugging beers while watching nude dancers gyrate to strobe lights. After an evening of such salve, he might be ready to patch it up with you.

If you're incensed that your boyfriend has been at the strip clubs again, you might want to save your energy. Because of a need for eye candy, male bonding, companionship, bachelor party attendance, and being ticked off at you, he's going to end up there sometimes and it's not the end of the world.