Child Support I can't aford it

    Child Support is tough on a lot of people, especially when their income is not that big to begin with, you can't afford it.  Child support  is a good thing and it should be.  We all hope that the money is going to the right place and people are not taking advantage of it.        For you people who pay child support.  I know it can hurt sometimes but, you have no choice.  If you are mad about it, just think of how it is helping your kid.  If you do not think the money is going to the kids, do some investigating and bring the issue up.  It is tough for single moms to raise a kid.  Even though the amount may seem big to you, it is probably not as much to the mom.  Just think of the expense for a kid in one week alone.  You also want to make sure your kid or, kids grow up happily and comfortably.  We don’t want the kids to just be getting by with the bare minimum.        If you are having a negative out look on child support because you can't afford it.  Do your best to turn it in to a positive.  Be proud of your self and feel good that you are taking the responsibility to support your child.  Remember, this is a law because of the ones that did not want to take on the responsibility.  The law is there to make sure that dose not happen.  It is great for the kids, the kids are our future.  Growing up in a better situation will help us all.  Think of yourself as contributing to the future and love your kids, make sure they know it.        If you are really having trouble.  Think of getting another job.  Do your best to refinance your situation.  As much as we do not want to, we have to put in extra effort to live the way we want.  There are choices out there, they just are not easy to do.  It will take some push.