Finding Romance on the Internet

With the advent of the internet age it is no wonder that dating has gone online as well. Online dating has exploded in popularity during the past 5 years with online dating sites ranking the number two type of paid service on the entire internet. Jumping into online dating is relatively easy for first timers. New daters need to be aware of the process and learn tips for online dating success.

Choosing the Best Dating Site

Not all dating sites are created equal. The goal is to find a dating website that fits your personality and expectations. Most dating sites use the picture and profile method of paring daters. Basically, users are encouraged to complete lengthy profiles and then post a picture of themselves. All information collected is stored in a database for users to access.

Other methods include matching daters with a rating/compatibility system. For example, if you are adventurous the site will match you up with other adventurous people.

The last method uses personal matchmakers. These types of services usually require multiple in-person interviews and close work with your dating mentor. These services usually have excellent matching results but cost a lot more than traditional online dating services. Ask yourself, ‘How much you are willing to spend?' 'What type of relationship you are looking for?' 'How involved do you want to be in the process?’ Once you have narrowed down your expectations, search for sites that fit your style.

Presenting the Best You Possible

Putting your favorite wrinkle free shirt on or spritzing on your favorite cologne is natural when going on date. You want to make the best possible first impression. The same principal applies to online dating. Your profile is the first thing people are going to see about you. Make your profile interesting above all else. The best way to do that is show some passion for the things in your life. Talk about hobbies, goals, interests, career and personality. Boring will get you nowhere. Also, do not lie about your height, weight or marital status. These lies will only lead to trouble down the road.

Meeting in Person

The goal of online dating is to meet someone for real dates once the both of you have agreed to take the next step forward. Safety should be the number one priority. Only after an adequate amount of chatting and phone conversations should you agree to meet in person. Make sure you tell someone where you are going and what time you expect to be back. Meet in an open and public place; a café is a great place for a quick first date. Do not pick up the other person; drive yourself to the meeting place. If you are meeting the person out of town make sure to have hotel reservations in advance and do not tell the other person where you will be staying until you feel comfortable.

Partake in a Normal Relationship

Once you have met someone special spend an adequate amount of time really getting to know each other before making big plans. Online dating can lead to a fast paced relationship where things can get out of control quickly.