Make the Move Easier on Your Kids

Dec 12
08:16

2011

JohnCherry

JohnCherry

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Before the movers you hired pull up to the curb to load up all your household belongings, there are some steps you should take to make the move easier on your kids. These are all very basic steps that do not take long or much effort to implement, but they will make a huge difference in your kids’ acceptance of and attitude toward the move.

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When kids are forced to move,Make the Move Easier on Your Kids  Articles it tears their whole world apart, especially if they are young or have never known any other home than the one they were raised in. Adults are capable of understanding that moving can be a positive event. It can be the start of a whole new life, where new friends and opportunities are waiting. Kids are not able to understand anything beyond the fact that when they go to bed in the new house, it won’t be in the same place they’ve gone to bed every night before. This can be a very distressing feeling for children.

Before the mover Chicago you hired pull up to the curb to load up all your household belongings, there are some steps you should take to make the move easier on your kids. These are all very basic steps that do not take long or much effort to implement, but they will make a huge difference in your kids’ acceptance of and attitude toward the move.

•    Purchase or borrow a children’s book about moving. These books explain moving in a way that younger kids can understand. They have colorful pictures that make moves seem happy and exciting, which is exactly how you want your kids to feel.

•    If you can, allow your kids to pick out their rooms in the new house. This will give them something to look forward to when they are able to choose where they will live.

•    If you can, allow your kids to design their new rooms. Since moving signals a new start, your kids will be more receptive to the move if they are able to choose a new theme for their room. If they have to put up the same old decorations and have the same old theme, they might not view the move as the fresh start that you do.

•    Purchase a new outfit of your kids’ choosing that they can wear on moving day.

•    Allow them to choose a meaningful toy that they can carry with them during the move.

•    If your kids have dishes that they prefer, make sure to put it in the box that is going to be opened first when you get to your new house so that they recognize something familiar right away.

•    Arrange for young kids to be somewhere else when the movers load your belongings. Watching their stuff get put on a truck can be very stressful for young children.

•    Try to unpack your kids’ rooms before any other rooms. This will speed up the adaption process that all kids have to undergo when they move.

Above all, stay positive about the move yourself. This is a key point because kids are very in tune to what you feel. If you are excited about the move, they will be too.