Should I Call Him?
He used to call you every day and that feeling of security from knowing he would call was great. But something happens and he stops calling you. A day goes by and you start wondering. Should I Call Him?
Another hour or two go by. Still no call from him.
What's going on, you wonder. You really start to get anxious. Why doesn't he call?
And what do you do when a guy stops calling? Do you wait for him to call or do you jump to the phone and dial his number? And what if he doesn't answer? Do you call him again?
But if he doesn't return your phone calls you start feeling even more anxious.
Should I call him again? You wonder. And you try to justify the fact you are calling him for the fifth time by the fact that he used to call you. He called. But then he stopped. That must be ok to call him, you think since he called first.
I know how frustrating it can get not knowing why men stop calling. Perhaps you should find out the real reason he stopped calling at Men Stop Calling
There are times when you should call and there are those when you shouldn't. So how do you know when to call and when not to? Here is a test you can use to decide whether you should call this man.
Have you called him repeatedly with no success? If you call too much and he doesn't answer, get a hint. The reason he is not answering the phone when you call is because he either can't answer or he doesn't want to answer the phone. Does he has a caller ID? If so, that would be another strong indicator that you should probably quit calling him at least for now.
Did he say he'd call and he isn't? Have you tried calling him? If he said he'd call you, he probably will. And if he doesn't, there are things you should not do. Oftentimes women start acting on emotions ruining a chance of a potential relationship before it starts or prompting the end of a relationship where it wasn't supposed to end.
Was he supposed to call you at a certain time and he stood you up, or did you arbitrarily decide that it is time he called? Give it some time and if you still don't hear from him, don't panic.
There are things you can do to significantly increase your chances of getting a call from a man you like if you play your cards right.
There are strong psychological buttons you can push to make a man call you. Unfortunately most women don't know what they are. And now knowing what those emotional buttons are, they make all the wrong moves which may often result in a break up and never hearing from this man again.
If you are asking yourself whether you are calling him too much, you probably are. What you should do instead is to learn how to utilize the power you have as a woman to make a guy call you.
To learn what those power buttons are, visit Make Him Call Me
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ABOUT THE AUTHOR
ABOUT THE AUTHOR: Elaine is the author of the book 101 Reasons Why Men Stop Calling that you can preview at her site at Why He Doesnt Call.