Breast Augmentation - Dealing With The Emotional Aftermath

Many women prepare themselves for the physical changes of breast augmentation, but few consider how it will impact them on an emotional level. Patients will go on shopping sprees, purchasing larger bras, low-cut tops, and body fitting dresses, not thinking about how their new body will affect existing and current relationships as well as everyday interactions with the public. For most women, cosmetic surgery is an overall positive experience, but there can be some obstacles to overcome.

People who have had a plastic surgery procedure that greatly alters their appearance can go through a short period of shock. A person has seen the same image every day in the mirror, and then suddenly overnight there has been a huge change. For some, it can seem almost unreal. They may even begin to feel anxious or confused. These feelings are normal and should lessen over the first few weeks of recovery. However, they can resurface as the body adjusts to swelling, bruising begins to show, or bandages are removed. Patients should prepare themselves for some difficult emotions and moodiness, especially during the first two to three months. If the feelings persist or become too distressing, professional help should be sought.

People who knew you before breast augmentation will react differently to your surgery. It is not uncommon for people to act angry, jealous, or apathetic while you are extremely excited. This can be hurtful, especially if those who react negatively are close friends, family or even a partner. Two particularly painful responses that are rather common are, "You looked better before," and "I don't see much of a difference." Jealousy is the usual underlying cause for these statements. They may not be envious of your new physique, but rather that you have achieved a personal goal. Over time, their feelings may fade and normalize again. But some women will find that they lose a few friends over their new body, which may be for the best.

Women seeking implants largely agree that they are having surgery for themselves, but regardless of their motives, there is a chance that male attention will increase. A larger chest is not necessarily the only reason for the sudden onslaught of attention. Following breast augmentation, women feel more comfortable in their bodies and are more apt to dress accordingly. This newfound confidence is a major people magnet. Regardless of the reason, it can be stressful dealing with unwanted advances or overly aggressive men. The good news is that you don't have to necessarily downplay your chest or become a shut-in. A simple change in body language can help ward off strangers from approaching you.

Implants will change your life in many ways, just as weight loss, a nose job, or a dramatic haircut or dye will. If you remain positive, ignore the negativity, and learn to cope with the changing perceptions that people may have, you'll find the journey greatly rewarding. For support, consider speaking with other women who have undergone the same procedure. They can provide valuable tips and advice.