Dentists Visits For Your Child - Alleviating Anxiety for the Initial Trip

Routine exams by dentists are recommended as early as the first birthday by the American Dental Association, but many parents decide to wait until their child has a mouthful of teeth. It’s helpful to ask your own dentist what he or she recommends, and whatever you decide, there are some things to consider before that initial visit.

You may find it helpful to choose someone that has experience with children. Many practitioners care for the whole family while others dentists prefer a specific age group. Ask for referrals from other parents or even from your own dental practice, and don’t hesitate to call ahead and ask questions. If you are able, stop by and visit the office or make an appointment to interview the practitioner. When you are at ease with your decision, it will be easier to convey a relaxed temperament to your child.

If your child is old enough to understand the fact that he is going to visit the dentist, try reading a book or showing them a short video about their first dental exam. Explain to your child why he is going to have a dental exam and what will happen during the visit. By removing the fear of the unknown, your child may be more cooperative when he gets to the office. If the practice has a website, show it to your child. Seeing a picture of the dentist and hygienist will help them to feel more at ease upon meeting them. Additionally, you may want to offer an incentive for his cooperation on the day of the visit. Having something to look forward to afterwards is always exciting for a young child.

One helpful resource in preparing for the first exam is The American Dental Association. This website has a page just for children, and you can have your child read a story, play a game and learn about valuable skills in taking care of his teeth. As your child grows, the resources available are excellent for teaching your child about oral health and helping them learn to care for their teeth on their own. Early appreciation for dentists will save a lifetime of anxiety!

Feeling rushed or stressed before the appointment will only make any anxiety that you or your child is feeling worse. Plan to arrive early on the day of the appointment and spend some time reading the books or magazines in the waiting room. Many offices have exam-related materials to peruse while you wait. Also, you might find that bringing a favorite toy along for your child to hold will help them feel a little more at ease.

During the visit, ask the hygienist to explain what he is doing in simple terms. Your child will probably want to know exactly what is going on inside his mouth. By telling him that the dentist’s helper is “polishing” his teeth to make them shiny, you’re creating interest in seeing the job once it is complete. Once your appointment is completed, be sure to follow through with that incentive if your child cooperated. A simple sticker or trip to the park is a great reward for a job well-done!