(J) Marshall Wade

A More meaningful Marriage

Normal 0 When we were in our younger teenage years, our bodies appeared to be the dominate factor in our lives..  Everything about our

     When we were in our younger teenage years, our bodies appeared to be the dominate factor in our lives..  Everything about our appearance must be just right, so we may look like Adonis to the females, and the females look like god’s gift to the males.  Of course, both persuasions want to look sexy and mysterious.  Why?

     Well, the males, at that stage of life usually have one dominate thought in their mind …how to attract a female to take on a date, and hopefully wind up in a dark secluded spot so they may satisfy that thought in their mind.  Why? So that after they take the female home, they beat their chest like a gorilla in the jungle who has just prevailed in a great battle --- then, they start planning the next date.

     The females, being the mysterious creatures they are, know very well what males are planning --- however; even though the immediate goal is the same, they are planning a much longer adventure.  So their planning is a lot more detailed than the males may suspect.  And my happy self will admit that I don’t really understand the process, because – well, because I happen to be a male!  But the process, as I think I understand it, goes something like this.

     The females, bless those wonderful creatures, will work at a job for hundreds of hours out of their lives – why?  So they may spend hundreds of dollars – why?  So they can go shopping for a myriad of things that will make their hair fuller4, shinier, and simmer in the moonlight.  Also, make-up that will make their skin and face so beautiful that the males, when they see them, will suddenly be so awed, that they see nothing else in the world.  Plus, other products that will enhance their bodies to the point that, when the males goggle at them, the one thought in their mind will, once again, dominate their brain cells.  Why?  So they may attract one of the beasts, who are now convinced that they are so sexy, beautiful, and mysterious, that the beasts totally believe that they are the answer to all of the male’s prayers.

     Why?  So the beast can make her pregnant.  Why? So she can bloat up like a balloon, waddle like a duck, become very moody, and run heaps of medical bills. Why?  So when that big blob of DNA decides to exit from its organic nest, she can through an enormous amount of pain, sand curse the beast for what he did to her. Why? S So she can now go back to work for hundreds of hours, and earn hundreds of dollars, in order to help pay all of the bills, and to educate and love her hew DNA.  Why? So that she can get up every morning, get the beast off to his job, get the DNA off to school, and then get herself off to her job….and that’s not all!  When she gets home from her job, and finds the beast watching television, she can now fix dinner, clean the house, do the laundry, and an assortment of other chores.  Why? Danged if I know!

     However; I do know this!  If she, the beast, and the DNA are going to enjoy a fairly long and happy life together, that both her and the beast had better have some common-sense, so they both realize that they need to help each other do the chores, and plan their future. Also, they both need to have a sense of humor, so they may laugh at all the things in their lives that really should not have upset them in the first place. Plus, some brain cells that allow them to become more educate to improve their lives, have more understanding for each other and the DNA, and to outwardly show more love for each other.  And finally, personality!  For it is personality that gives all of them the silent power to converse intelligently with each other, and the inner and light-hearted strength  to accomplish all that need to be done with a good attitude, and little or no stress. Want to discover your strengths and growth areas?

     And if both of them have those qualities, the dominate thought in the male, will once again dominate his brain cells, and the female will once again realize what the male is up to --- then they can do it all over again!

   One more thought here, for the males who may read this. Please realize all the thought, trials and tribulations she goes through for you and the DNA/s, only because she loves you.  Retrieve that dominate thought and leave some love notes (she doesn’t care if they are good) around the nest, bring here some flowers now and then, take her in your arms, and tell here you still love her --- trust me! You won’t regret it!

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