How Do I Get My Husband To Fall In Love With Me Again - This Silly Answer Is Your Best Shot

"How do I get my husband to fall in love with me again?" That is not a silly question but I have a silly answer for you; and it might just be your best shot! You might never guess what it is that has the best chance of working to save your  marriage.

Your marriage is not the only one needing help, you ask how do I get my husband to fall in love with me again for the same reason other women do. Chances are your marriage has succumbed to a common ailment - laziness.

There are lots of things we can do to spice up our marriages and give our spouses what they want from us, we just do not do them. Maybe it is laziness, boredom or for some reason we do not feel comfortable doing the things that caused him or her to fall in love with us in the first place.

You ask me "how do I get my husband to fall in love with me again?" Let me ask you, "how did you get him to fall in love with you the first time?". Are you doing any of those things today?

I would wager a fair sum that he often saw you laughing, smiling and smiling at him. Do you still do that today?

Is saving your marriage worth stepping out of your comfort zone a little bit?

I know, I know. The house, the kids, the bills, the stinking job, maybe even health problems. But you know, marriage was designed to pair two people together to be better able to handle the frustrations in life.

Lean on each other, help each other, bring him up when he is down.

Often that is now what happens, though. Instead we lash out at the person closest by. The one we should be reaching to for help.

Have you both given up the hobbies and other joys of life for one reason or another? Do you even set aside time to enjoy each other anymore?

Arrange some time with just the two of you when you can forget about the kids, the cares of life and just do something silly with each other. Make each other laugh, do the goofy things you did when you did not care what other people thought.

Just because you get older does not mean you have to turn into a bore. When was the last time you did something interesting in the bedroom instead of the same old thing?

Marriage is not just about sex, but a marriage without it is just a business partnership - running a household together. And most business partnerships end up failing, so what does that tell you about a marriage run that way?

Sure, your husband is part of the problem, too, I do not mean to imply otherwise. I am sure there are things that he could be doing to make you fall in love with him again that he is not doing. And maybe saving your marriage is not at the top of his list right now.

Take it from a man, though, that when a wife no longer laughs at a mans jokes or some silly antic that he did purely to put a smile on her face, but just rolls her eyes and makes a "hmmm" noise, before long he will no longer try.

If you take the lead and act a little silly to put a smile on his face, then he will know it is OK to try something silly to put a smile on your face again.

Once you start laughing together, having some fun and enjoying each others company, you will soon find yourself in the bedroom with the door closed and enjoying spending your lives together.

It will be like old times. Maybe better than old times.

Nice thought, huh?

Are you ready to take action? (Caution: this could be a little bit of work!)

Do not start this, though, without knowing how you are going to finish it. You cannot just flip on the "silly switch" and have a solution to "How do I get my husband to fall in love with me again".

It takes more than that. We have the guide you need to see this through at http://www.RelationshipAdviceHelp.com.

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