If you rebuild a broken relationship successfully, the one thing you can be sure of is that it will be much stronger and better than it ever was before. Find out how to do this properly.
The best thing to say if you want to rebuild a broken relationship, is in doing this successfully, your relationship will be that much better and stronger than it was before. How you do this is to analyse the relationship you once had and work out between the pair of you exactly where the problems were. If you are able to do this, you obviously want to stay together, and by working on your problem areas the relationship can survive.
The first thing to realise, is that rarely is just one person at fault - it takes two people to tango and two to break, and rebuild a relationship. Never apportion blame to each other, as this is one of the best ways to sabotage your relationship completely. What you really must do, is to listen very carefully to what your partner is saying to you. This is the only way you will find out what is bothering them. Sometimes, one partner just puts up with something they don't like, because they find it difficult to let the other one know how annoying something is - or they just are unable to get a word in edgewise!
If you don't make the changes you need, you certainly won't be mending anything so make sure you want the relationship to survive before you even think about trying to mend it. Work out a plan that will work for both of you, this will show a mature approach and a strength of character that you may not have revealed to them before.
Doing this is a whole lot better than trying to make your significant other jealous by dating someone else. That just will not work and it also lacks any imagination, nor does it suggest that you really want to rebuild a broken relationship. In fact, it plainly looks like you are really not that bothered, so why put both of you through the pain?
If you are sincerely looking to rebuild a broken relationship, be sensible, upfront and be really honest. This is the only way to build a basis for an enduring relationship. It will also show you how important it is to consider your significant other above yourself. If you both put the other first, you will both be happier and more confident with each other whatever life throws your way.
