Surefire Ways to Get Back with Your Ex

If you regret having ended a relationship and want to know how to get back with your Ex, it may be a long, rough road, but it is possible. Of course, it all depends on the reasons why you are no longer with your Ex that will determine how easy it will be to get back together with them. You also, of course, must factor in the chance that they may already be with someone else, making your task a little more difficult, but with a little diligence and determination it can still be done.

Step One: Pour on the Love!

When you decide that you want your Ex back, the first thing you should do is get romantic.  Start by composing a love letter or leave a bouquet of beautiful fresh flowers by their door or make them a mixed tape of all of your favorite songs when you were together. All of these things will let your Ex know that not only are you interested, but that you are willing to go that extra mile to make them happy.

Step Two: Admit Wrongdoing

The reason you may have broken up in the first place is because you royally messed up. No matter what the reason, the only chance you have of getting back together with your Ex is to come clean with them, be apologetic and start off with a clean slate. Show them that you have changed. The way you can show this is by taking your relationship slow so that you can build their trust back up again. 

Step Three: Is it For Real?

Before deciding for sure whether or not you want to be back together with your Ex, think back to the reason you broke up with them in the first place. Has your Ex moved onto someone new, causing you to be a bit jealous? Make sure that you are getting back together with them for the right reasons instead of because they have moved on with someone else other than you. Think about the things that made you happy in the relationship and what drove you crazy. If the pros outweigh the cons, then you have a fighting chance.