The Astrology of Attraction By Astro Speaks

Why are some people attracted to each other instantly? Some couples claim that they fell in love at first sight. Is it just a matter of appearance or something deeper? Perhaps, the answer lies in the stars. In astrology, there are 12 zodiac signs – Aries, Taurus, Gemini, Cancer, Leo, Virgo, Libra, Scorpio, Sagittarius, Capricorn, Aquarius, and Pisces. A planet rules each zodiac sign. Mars rules Aries and Scorpio. Venus rules Taurus and Libra. Mercury rules Gemini and Virgo. Jupiter rules Sagittarius and Pisces. Saturn rules Capricorn and Aquarius. The planets color the personalities of the people born under different zodiac signs. Thus, Aries people tend to be aggressive as the fiery planet, Mars rule their sign.

Let us now look into the attraction quotients of all the 12 Zodiac signs.

Aries

They are brilliant and brim with energy. They have a strong independent streak and are versatile. They are quite passionate about things that interest them. Though romantics, they can be rather childish. They want everything immediately and lack the patience needed for stable relationships. 

To woo an Aries, you must act like an enigma. They get easily bored with dull and predictable types. They are intrigued by people who have a mind of their own. They admire their partner’s independence and artistic qualities.

Taurus

Taurus natives prefer to take the lead. They don’t fall easily, but when they do fall for someone, they fall hard, and they are very loyal to their partner. They look for traits like honesty and straightforwardness and won’t take kindly to deception and lies. It is better, to be honest with them. They are lovers of elegance and refinement.

Gemini

Geminis are the chatterboxes and social butterflies of the zodiac. They are prone to sudden mood swings. They tend to be diplomatic and cringe from conflicts, even if they have to mask their real feelings. So you need to read their minds to understand them. The most important thing to remember is that jealousy and possessiveness can make them run like frightened deer. Geminians love their freedom and hate to be tied down. 

Cancer

Cancerians have a deep-rooted fear of rejection. They will conceal their interest in you to avoid disappointment. So if you love a Cancer person, you need to get very close to them and talk openly to help them overcome their inhibitions. As Cancerians are family-oriented, you must project yourself as a family person and make an effort to get acquainted with their own family. Do all that you can to make them feel comfortable and secure with you.

Leo

Compliment them like there is no tomorrow and shower attention on them, better still, just put them on an altar and worship them. Nothing pleases a Leo more than a massage to the ego. Leos are very generous and loyal, but you have to wear your emotions on your sleeve if you love a Leo. They should feel that they are the center of your universe, to put it simply. Woe betides the one who boasts about his/her old conquests to a Leo lover. Leos hate playing second fiddle. Most Leos want to feel proud of their lover and flaunt them in society. So pay attention to your dress and social graces when dating a Leo. They also like their partner to be playful and confident.

Virgo

Virgos are rather critical but intelligent. They are known to be very loyal. They are finicky about cleanliness and neatness, so a messy, disorganized person would cut no ice with them. They can be quite demanding and are perfectionists. Flashy types are not their cup of tea.

Libra

Libra is the most diplomatic sign and often find it very hard to say ‘No’ to anyone. They love beauty, harmony, and symmetry. They are die-hard romantics, so woo them with roses and candlelight dinners. Since they tend to take a balanced view of things, they may not gel well with people who espouse extreme positions or have an argumentative streak. They can be lazy and indecisive at times and tend to spend too much on luxuries. So make sure that you can give them a good life.

Scorpio

Scorpios are very passionate and intense types. They have a strong will and are quite intelligent. Their drawbacks are jealousy, possessiveness, and a tendency to be secretive. They have a magnetic appeal that most people simply can’t resist. They will never tolerate a roving eye or a flirtatious streak. They need to be in control, and so passive types are more likely to appeal to them. 

Sagittarius

Sagittarians are courageous, optimistic, and confident people. They are very open-minded and love exploring different options. Freedom is very important to them, so those who try to curb their freedom will be quickly shown the door. Be prepared to live an outdoorsy and adventurous life if wooing a Sagittarian. They are prone to mood swings and like to have their way. If you are the fun-loving and easy-going type, they will like to be around you.

Capricorn

They are shy, sensitive, and sensible. Though they are not impulsive, they will pursue what they want with tenacity. They tend to be introverts and family oriented. Non-conformists and unconventional types won’t get far with them. They can be reticent, so you will have a tough time making them open up. Capricornians are focused on their life goals and ambitions. They respect those who are similarly focused. They don’t like frivolous people. 

Aquarius

Aquarians are eccentric, independent, and intelligent. They dread monotony and are attracted to bohemian types. They tend to be creative and dislike people who try to pin them down. They steer clear of emotional and clingy people. They can cut themselves off from people if they feel like it. They are almost fanatical about their freedom. They are attracted to people who are as independent and original as they are.

Pisces

Pisceans are introverts but very romantic and nurturing. They don’t easily express their love and are attracted to people who are different from them, especially those who are confident and sociable. They are not likely to have casual flings, so woo them only if they want a serious relationship. Be gentle with these dreamy people, for they hurt easily.