With all sexual activities, safety should always be the first thing on the list. This holds true for Bondage as well. If you are looking to engage in bondage and have some concerns, read the guidelines and safe practices associated with bondage. It could make the difference between a night of sexual indulgence or a night of utter fright and pain. Flogging: Spanking your partner can be fun and erotic for the both of you. It is total turn on for some people to spank their partners, however, there are some general rules that you should consider before spanking.
When spanking you need know your boundaries. Communicate with your partner and find out what she likes and dislikes, if this is your first time start off light, then gradually make the strikes more intense. This will help the two of you know each others limitations, and make the spankings more enjoyable.
Make sure you incorporate a safe word, this way if the play goes to far, the word is said and the action is to stop. This is very important, especially when try new things.
Never strike directly on the bone of your partner. This is extremely painful. Also, other areas that should never be spanked are the neck and the lower back. It is a good idea not to strike behind the knees either. There are main blood arteries there that could be damaged.
Make sure any of the sexual aids that you will be using for the spankings meet both you and your partners approval. It is best whey you both pick out the toys, and not to just spring it up on your partner. They may not like it, and it would have been just a waist of money.
Practice with your sex toys, strike yourself with it and see how it feels, remember the intensity of the strike so you know how hard to strike for the same result. Of course, everyone's pain threshold is different, so you still need to proceed with caution in this area. Just make sure you know the toy and how to use it before bringing it into play.
Restraining
Restraining is fun, there is nothing more exhilarating than being tied up and having your partner have his or her way with you. Your body can reach a state of totally bliss when their partner is enjoying every inch of their partners body and they can't do a thing about it. Know this one should keep some common guidelines in their minds so that the restrained isn't at any risks.
Make sure you NEVER, EVER leave your restrained partner unattended for any length of time. You never know what can happen, and believe me anything and everything can happen the moment you thought that it couldn't. Fires, burglaries, and good ole Mother Nature, has a way of showing their ugly heads when you least expected it.
Make sure your partner is restraint in a comfortable and safe place. Let your partner know that something doesn't feel right, remember you are both here for each others PLEASURE'S if one of you is not enjoying something, the pleasure part goes away until it is fixed.
A very important aspect of restraining is to make sure that the restraints are not to tight or restricting PROPER air flow. You want the restraints secure, but not so secure that you are restricting the ability to breathe or cutting off blood circulation. Never tie anything around the neck or genitals, and take caution when tying around the wrist and ankles. Tying has the chance of tightening up during play, so periodically check the restraints and make sure they are not causing problems,
As with flogging, make sure the two of you have safe words, so that if it gets out of hand, the word is said and the action stops immediately. Plus employ time limits, you don't want to be tied up for more than you can handle. Usually no more than an hour in any given position, and if it is a new position make sure you take it easy the first couple of times.
Communicate with your partner, and find out what they are enjoying, what they are not enjoying. This is as much for them as it is for you, so know what each others expectations are before and during play, and always know each others limitations, if you are unsure of what each others limitations are take it slow and find out.
This is supposed to be enjoyable for both parties involved. So know what each other likes and dislikes, what your expectations are, and make it safe and risk free. Doing this will help ensure that you will get the most out of your bondage experiences.
What to do when sex turns out not so great!
There are many complaints from couples, mostly women, that suggest that their relationships are suffering in the sexuality department. They can range from lack of attention, to just plain not getting it done in the bedroom. What can one do about this dilemma? It is clear that the man in the relationship usually wants to please his significant other, so what is it that turns the woman away from the man, or vise versa? We will look a little deeper into the issues that surround couples who are suffering in the sexuality department of their relationship.
Interesting Coin Facts
Here you can find some interesting coin facts, from how they were made, to what they are made of. United States coins have been around since the late 1700's, and they have made dramatic changes from then to now. The United States Mint is the largest manufacturer of currency in the world, and since its creation in 1792, they have become a very large entity with the production of not only United States coins, but the coins of other countries as well.One interesting coin fact is, How are coins made ?
1944 Steel Penny
In 1943, copper to a hard hit due to the war and the government decides to use steel in its production of pennies. Well this only lasted a year because they found that steel didn't work very well and resorted back to using copper. Well during the production of both the 1943 copper penny and the 1944 steel penny, some of the blanks used to strike the coins got mixed in with the dates. The rare finds are the 1943 copper penny (not steel) and the 1944 steel penny ( not copper).
