Do you keep barking up the wrong tree when it comes to picking a suitable partner? Read on to see how to beat the odds.
Mismatch
He's in his 30s or older, You're in your 20s
Chances of it Working
Excellent: An older guy tends to offer more stability and commitment than a 20-something one does.
How to Beat the Odds
Obviously, guys in their 20s do settle down (take Ashton Kutcher and Maria Carey's man, Nick Cannon, for example) - it may just take him a while to get comfortable with monogamy and not feel rushed into things. If you're game to play it patiently, you'll probably appreciate his sense of fun, his sense of adventure, his energy (especially in the sack) and how unjaded he is.
Mismatch
He's in his 20s, You're in your 30s
Chances of it Working
Poor: Most young men aren't into serious relationships yet. And whereas you may be thinking of starting a family, he probably isn't.
Mismatch
He has money, You're on a budget
Chances of it Working
Good: Men love showing affection by treating you to things you otherwise wouldn't have access to, so being able to do that will strengthen your bond.
Mismatch
You have money, he's on a budget
Chances of it Working
Poor: Men are still raised to believe that they need to be financially successful, so he'll probably feel that he doesn't measure up.
How to Beat the Odds
Play up his talents, whether it's his encyclopedic knowledge of current events or his amazing ability to work magic with absolutely anything electronic. Then rely on his skills by asking him for help in those specific areas. When you let him prove how useful he is, he'll internalize that you need him and see himself as a strong partner.
Mismatch
He's introverted, You're extroverted
Chances of it Working
So-So: You'll want to share your social life. He may go along at first to please you, but once he pulls back, you could feel frustrated.
How to Beat the Odds
Save your social-butterfly tendencies with your friends and bring him only to the most important events. And when he does come out, don't ditch him for the dance floor - make a point of introducing him to people and emphasize what they have in common, since introverts feel comfortable only when they're making a one-on-one connection.
Mismatch
He's extroverted, You're introverted
Chances of it Working
Poor: Social interaction provides fulfillment and status, so he’ll expect you to hang in his world without getting clingy, quiet or pouty.
How to Beat the Odds
Making the effort to RSVP 'yes' to things will show that he matters to you. Just ask him to prep you on people's basics (their jobs, hobbies, passions, whatever) ahead of time. You'll feel better steeled to make small talk (even if you don't join the conga line). And suggest easy double dates with those of his pals you know you like.
Mismatch
He's laid back, You're structured
Chances of it Working
Good: Though it may cause friction now and then, his laissez-faire attitude is probably part of what attracted you to him, and he'll help you loosen up.
Mismatch
You're laid back, His structured
Chances of it Working
Good: Having someone whose so on top of things makes a woman feel secure. Plus, you'll both enjoy breaking him out of his routine.
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