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Using a variety of positions when having sex can serve many purposes. With each position we can achieve different goals. Some positions increase intimacy while others provide us with deep penetration, stimulation of the G-spot or unleashing of animalistic passions. Some may be used to prolong an erection or extend our lovemaking session, while others can provide us with a quickie. Some positions are more pleasurable for a male and others are more pleasurable for the female.
The best lovemaking session will incorporate a variety of positions at just the right time for each partner as if dancing in perfect synchronicity. Although there may be times now and then when we want to focus on one particular position such as when we are experimenting with something new or if we just want a quickie.
The following three positions in this particular order is a great scenario that meets the needs for both male and female and helps us achieve numerous goals in one session.
1. Missionary- By beginning with missionary this builds us up to the next phase of excitement. It provides us with a lot of intimacy because in this position we can look into one anotherís eyes, kiss, or touch each otherís face. It provides us with a sense of closeness and heightens our desire. With some adjustments and maneuvers of legs and torso we can achieve different areas of stimulation. 2. Woman on Top-After reaching a plateau in the missionary position the female can then gracefully roll the male over on his back and mount him. Woman on top position gives the female complete power in satisfying herself. On top she can stimulate her clitoris and her G-spot with proper maneuvering. This position also provides the male with excitement of watching his woman be in control and the opportunity to observe her facial expressions while she climaxes, which can be very arousing for him. The woman can either slide back and forth slowly or ride him like a wild horse. 3. Doggy Style- Once the woman has satisfied herself, the male can then gracefully move behind his woman and enters her from behind. After watching and feeling his lover climax he will probably be on the edge of orgasm himself. Doggy style switches the power over to the male. He is now in complete control of the pace and depth. He will also have a nice view of his loverís buttocks and of his penis sliding in and out of her. This position allows for very deep thrusting and penetration, which will have him at climax very quickly.
By becoming a connoisseur of positions we can increase the variety of sensations we experience, enhance our level of satisfaction and pleasure and be viewed as a skilled and exciting lover by our partner. It can help us maintain a sense of newness and excitement in the relationship and maintain the sizzle and spark.
Cynthia Perkins, M.Ed. is a writer, advisor, educator and coach specializing in sexual intimacy, erotic communication and keeping the fire burning in your relationship. A FREE E-zine packed full of tips, advice and erotic stories can be found at her website. http://www.holistichelp.net/sexandsoul