First Night Tips for Marriage

It’s your first night; don’t let anxiety build-up hamper your mood and performance. The first night of closeness has sexual tension, but things are more likely to be the way you desired if you prepare for it. Don’t waste the opportunity of what could be the most exciting time of your life with a casual, laid-back attitude. Make your night special, so that you’ll reminisce the day for a long time.

Mentioned below are the tips to prepare and gear on to the sensual mode for a pleasurable first night sex experience.

1. Get over Anxiety and Restlessness

Your comfort will make your partner comfortable, while your discomfort will put partner in discomfort. Communicating is the way to put an end to anxiety and restlessness. Make first attempt to make a dialogue. Communication will guide you both to the comfort zone. If you know your partner, put forth things that he/she is comfortable with. Moreover, you need to ensure that communication keeps floating.

2. Forget Everything, Drop your Expectations

Expect nothing! Forget fantasises; fantasising over your first night may backfire on you. You will be disappointed if your expectations are not met or night turns out to be different from the one you’ve imagined. Therefore, take things as they come for a wonderful time on the first night.

3. Be Flirtatious

You must use flirty trait you posses on the first night, which will otherwise go wasted. Don’t hesitate to bring it out. A little teasing will excite your partner and set the tone for the exciting night. Ensure you keep eye contact with your partner while complementing him/her in a flirty manner can do wonders. Verbal foreplay could also be the initial act of sexual pursuit.

4. Go Slow

Don’t jump on to the bed hurriedly. Love-making is not the only thing. This will seem like that you have a task to accomplish. The mantra to have an exciting and fun-filled first night is going slow. Going slow includes lighting up the mood and adding romanticism to the pursuit.

5. Don’t Improvise too much

In a quest to amaze and impress your partner on the first night, don’t bring out all your ideas that prevent you from making a good impression. You should do it later when you know your partner better, when they are ready and comfortable with you. Otherwise, you intentions could be misunderstood or treated differently than what you expect.