Sex- A naked violence or an eternal truth

What do you think about sex- an unforgiving sin of Adam and Eve or sharing of true expressions between two souls emotionally and physically?? Frankly speaking, I’m confused and most probably, many of us too. 

Since ages, our society is frantically divided between two aspects of this god’s pleasure gift. One section justifies the openness of these wonderful feelings that bind two souls into one entity forever. They justify their statements on the behest of human evolution and freedom of expression. The other section doubts its integrity and calls it a curse of an open society. These people justify their statements with increasing unrest in the society and pour out the entire blame on this so-called ‘Naked violence’. This fight will go on until we ourselves try to find the eternal truth behind Sex and why god has given us the power to share this highest level of emotional feelings. 

Undoubtly, sex is a virtue and necessity in its own regard. It is the power of sex because of which we evolve on this earth since ages. No matter how different opinions people have about sex but not a single entity can raise an eyebrow on the true happiness it generates when we dip into this deep ocean of physical love. We all love it yet sadly we all refused to share our personal opinion on it. 

The question is whether it is ok to keep sex under wraps and let everyone go through the natural biological cycle to find out the real essence of sex themselves or there is a need to guide them; teach them about how it is being done or what’s the right time to do it?? 

Sadly, the whole situation is exaggerated by the media especially among western culture where openness has given rise to single parenting, child abuse and growing violence among adolescents. Today, almost every advertisement is a naked expression of arousal display. Even an advertisement on men under garments has some kind of glamour attached to it. Why?? Do they expect women to wear men underwear in so called open society?? You ask advertisement agencies and they call it a nice marketing strategy. If that is so, we must expect sooner or later five-year kids teaching us on how to wear condoms. This is a pity situation and this is what we call ‘Naked Violence’ i.e., unjustifiable display of sex with no real essence. 

If we go and watch a movie today it never finishes without a steaming scene between the reel characters. You ask them and they justify their act by saying that they have no inhibitions in showing their beauty or personality. If that is so, do we expect them to make love in front of their real-life kids??? If not, then why on screen where they are watched by millions of kids and teenagers who take them as their real life idols. 

We all need awareness if we really dream of an open society. Sex Education at primary levels is a very nice idea but it must be added with moral values to teach them about the significance of this slippery platform where they often slip and fell down. But the question is that whether it is enough or there is lot more to achieve.  

You ask any wise man and he will respond to this question by nodding his head positively. Sex Education is must in today’s open society; though not only to adolescents but to all. Be it middle aged men and women who often spread their legs to get feel of unknown territories (extra martial affairs) of this mystery island or old uncle and aunt who often debate behind the bed sheets on when to stop doing it. The fact is we all are swinging our swords with blind folded eyes without realizing the real significance behind this pleasure called Sex. 

In my view, Sex is a stamp on a relationship that only stands out physically but emotionally too. You ask any couple in love and ask them about their sex life. They will always tell you about the emotional level that they reach while having pleasure. They don’t need big size pleasure parts to reach climax but contribute their pleasure to compatibility they have between them.  

Sadly, though we hear often about rapes, extra-martial affairs, one-night stands, three somes, four somes, and nth somes. This is nothing but negative forces to fulfill our sexual desire without realizing that we are entering a dark pit where no matter how deep we go, we will never reach the eternal sexual feelings which we always crave for since ages. 

It’s time to wake up and find the real truth about what is a need of this hour- an open society with naked violence or an open society with respect for other gender, comfort zone before sex and knowledge of the right time when to enter this pleasure of eternal truth.  

It’s up to you friends but I’m still evolving myself into this….