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Swinging vs. Polyamory - Am I Wrong to Want One Without the Other?

So youíve been enjoying the swinging lifestyle for a few years, and are having a blast.

But what if it starts growing into more than just sex with friends - or friends with benefits?

o youíve been enjoying the swinging lifestyle for a few years, and are having a blast.

But what if it starts growing into more than just sex with friends - or friends with benefits? What if your husband or wife starts developing romantic (a.k.a. love) feelings for your playmates? Dare we call it polyamory?

"Polyamory is the practice of having more than one loving relationship at the same time, with the full knowledge and consent of all partners involved. The relationships are long-term, intimate, and usually (but not necessarily) sexual. Persons who consider themselves emotionally suited to such relationships may define themselves as polyamorous, often abbreviated to poly."


"Swinging, sometimes referred to in North America as the swinging lifestyle, is non-monogamous sexual activity, treated much like any other social activity, that can be experienced as a couple.† Swinging has been called wife swapping in the past, but this term is archaic and does not accurately describe the full range of sexual activities in which swingers may take part."


And what happens when the jealousy beast rears itís ugly head. Admittedly swingers (and certainly those into polyamory) are not nearly as apt to fits of jealousy as some monogamous couples, but itís been known to happenÖ

What happens when one partner wants a polyamorous relationship and the other one doesnít? Is it wrong to want one without the other?

No, itís absolutely not wrong. What you want is what you want. What you feel and what you want is whatís right for you and for your life. Period.The swinging lifestyle is typically about sex!

You get together, you play, and then you go home. Thatís kind of what itís about. But Polyamory takes it to a new level and, what I would consider, a much more enlightened level where you are actually in love relationships with multiple partners. Itís a true and total sharing of one another and not many couples (or individuals) are able to do that.It all comes down to communication.

Itís critical to ask your partner how they feel and to share your feelings. The absolute worst thing that you can do is to hold your feelings inside - what you really want - because youíre afraid your partner may not understand. You have to talk about what you both want from the relationship and what boundaries youíre comfortable with. And in some circumstances, you may find out that you want different things. If this is the case, youíll have to decide if you are willing to compromise or go your separate ways. Jealousy

The biggest reason why many people feel uncomfortable in a Swinging or Polyamorous relationship is "jealousy". Itís one of the biggest emotional issues that all couples face. And when you start bringing other people into your bedroom, you simply cannot let jealousy sneak into the picture because it will tear your relationship apart.

So you have to find ways to make each other feel really special and absolutely certain about where you stand in your own relationship before sharing intimate fun with others.

Thatís the biggest thing in the end. Talk! Share your feelings!

Oh, and if you think swinging or polyamory are a rare occurrence in our society, think again!

Check out this survey that over 4Health Fitness Articles,000 of our readers took - Sex Poll: Would You Consider Swinging or Polyamory? The results will certainly surprise you.

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