The Best Lovemaking Positions to Try

It's natural for couples to look for the best lovemaking positions to try. After all, after some time, sex can start to get boring if you don't try something new. So I hope these lovemaking positions brings you and your partner to many more climaxes together...

A small change in position can result in intensified pleasure. So some of these positions will just be a twist on some of the ways you and your partner already have sex.

Best-Lovemaking-Position 1. Missionary style.

This is known as the most traditional sex position, where the man is on top of a woman. But if you put a pillow under the woman's bottom, it will result in deeper penetration and can lead to a difference in the way she feels. Another way for the man to assert greater control over the woman in missionary position, is by holding onto her ankles and spreading her legs wider while continuing to penetrate her.

Alternatively, the woman can close her legs (until her thighs are touching), and lift both legs until they are perpendicular to the floor so the man can still penetrate her even with her legs together.

Best-Lovemaking-Position 2. Woman on top.

This is position is pleasurable for a woman because she can control the angle and speed which feels best to her (so important for her to climax). This position is also ideal for the man to either watch the woman caressing her own breasts and nipples, or to use his mouth on them himself. (Remember: lovemaking to a man is mostly about visual stimulation.)

One important thing for the man to do while the woman is on top, is to support her bottom so she can more easily glide up and down his penis. This also puts the man in control, which makes sex feel more primal. Also try this position with the man lying down, sitting on the bed or sitting on a chair.

It is a good idea to slowly build up the intimacy by clasping each other fingers and looking into each other's eyes as the woman slowly rocks and grinds herself on the man's penis. The woman can also swivel her hips (like doing the hula) while she is on top.

Lovemaking-Position 3. Penetration from behind.

Penetration from behind is truly one of the best lovemaking positions to try. One style of penetration from behind is commonly known as the doggy style. This pose requires the woman to get on all fours so the man kneel and can penetrate from behind. A tip for the man is to try to either lean forward, or remain perpendicular to the floor while thrusting. The man can also try to bring one knee up (like he is proposing on bended knee) to give himself a more stable position to rock.

Another style of penetration from behind is where both partners are standing. There are many variations to this pose because the woman can use many different places to support her upper-body as she leans forward. For example, a table, chair, sink, car, etc. She can even climb onto and kneel on a chair while the man stands on the floor.

Experimenting with these 3 best lovemaking positions to try is a way of increasing your intimacy as a couple. The most intimate connection you can share with someone is through the act of sex - and the biggest mistake you can make is to allow your sex life to become boring. So keep learning and creating original lovemaking positions of your own. Don't be afraid of making mistakes because you both can always just laugh about it and try something else.