Andrew Hunter

What You Should Say to A Girl You Just Met

Have you ever found yourself going up to a girl to introduce yourself, but you just didn't know what to say or how to start a decent conversation?  This article will show you the secrets to engaging women in conversations.

Once you go up to a girl there are a few things you can say to keep the interaction going.

Use these tips to have better conversations with women. Note:  Before trying any of this take a second to remind yourself that you are actually talking to a human being.

Be a little challenging. Keep her on the edge of her seat. Let her put a bit of effort into the conversation. Occasionally girls will try to test you. These are great chances to turn the tables and test her. When women test men, most guys will either try to act macho or become a doormat scared of offending her. Both of these will kill attraction.You will only be shooting yourself in the foot.

If you end up being tested try one of these two things. If she asks you something like how old you are or what you do for a living, you can either:

One, you can ask her "What makes you want to know?"  Don't say this like an arrogant jerk or you'll just inspire her to throw her drink on you. This will let her have a chance to ask you what she really wants to know.

To clarify that, you are responding to her questions with questions. Don't do this too much or you risk seeming like you are hiding something.

Second, you can tell her something that is plainly not true, but will sound funny. Make it your objective to say the most embarrassing thing you can think of. The more embarrassing it is, the better. It will show that you are confident enough in yourself that you can laugh at yourself. Most men would never have the courage to say that they were a virgin. When you do this and it's very clear that you arn't serious, you will come off as charming and confident. If you don't know what to say to a girl, you can always say something that will make her laugh.

Also hit on the woman a little. If you don't let her know that you think she's hot, she may only see you as a friend. I take it this isn't exactly what you are aiming for. It is really pretty simple to let a girl know you like her. Don't try to think up some orchestrated lecture about why the two of you are meant for each other. That is plain bad. Simply keep chatting with her until she brings up something that you are really impressed by. Then say something such as, "It's really sexy how you care so much for your friends," or "You are really turning me on when you speak Spanish like that."

Don't even worry about it sounding normal. It can be a little silly. In fact it's usually better if it is original.

I hope you've learned a thing or two about how to talk to women. This isn't open heart surgury. Let it be enjoyable and easy.

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