Can Couples Get Back Together After A Break Up

When couples break up the true cause that lead to the break up are rarely revealed.  There is absolutely no reason why you and your ex can not get back together after a break up, think about that for a second, how many people do you know that have reunited happily after a break up only to have their relationship stronger and happier than ever?In order to successfully reunite with your ex after a break up you must ensure that you do so with a clear head, free of impulse and irrational actions.   You must avoid the common mistakes that kill more relationships than you can imagine, nothing will push your ex away and into the arms of another more so than a desperate needy ex.Couples get back together after a break up every single day and your relationship is no different but it's important to know that simply picking up where things left off will not fix the problems that lead to the break down of your relationship in the first place.Talk to your ex and tell them you understand and agree that your relationship is broken, show respect and maturity.  Confidence and a positive attitude will allow for an open discussion for the real problems of your relationships to surface, at this point you can discuss things openly with a clear mind, free of impulse. If you find that you are constantly calling, messaging, email, following their status and Facebook and Myspace profiles you must stop immediately.  I know it is difficult and that you want nothing more than to get your ex back but nothing will destroy your last chance to reunite for good!