Communication and Commitment in Married Life

Oct 5
07:00

2010

Apoorv Kalra

Apoorv Kalra

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Marriage is much more than the usual fun, heavy food and new clothes that people usually attach it with. All the fun lasts for a few days and while people enjoy, the bride and the groom start getting ready for an entirely new phase in their life. The new phase unfurls an uncharted territory where neither them really know what would be coming. Often it is seen even in love marriages that the way a husband and wife treat each other is entirely different from the way they used to earlier.

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However,Communication and Commitment in Married Life  Articles the casual relationship that lovers usually share turns into a much more responsible and delicate relationship the very moment they tie the knot. They have to start living together 24 hours a day and learn to accept each other. Often misunderstandings creep up in the early days of marriage due to lack of communication. But what is this communication? And how important is commitment in married life?
Well, communication in literal sense means sending and receiving a message. No communication is complete unless the listener is able to comprehend what the speaker is saying. Well, that might sound a little complicated. Let’s uncomplicate this issue. Women and men have different ways of looking at things and therefore when a wife says ‘I am tired’, her husband says, ‘let’s get a new maid or just leave it and relax’. Well, can you believe it that the wife just means to say ‘I need your appreciation and love and affection’. Different sentences can mean different things and spouses fail to make out the meaning because of a communication gap.
A husband and wife take pledges to stay with each other forever, care for each other and love each other when they get married. However, it is equally important to talk to each other, tell what you like or dislike or what you thought could be done in a better way and appreciate everything that your spouse does for you. Be open and frank with your spouse since you are going to spend the rest of your life with this particular person, so there’s no reason to hide anything.
Commitment, just like communication is equally important. A commitment in marriage is the promise that you make during the ‘pheras’, by taking rounds around the sacred fire and promising gods and everyone witness to your marriage that no matter what happens, you’ll not let the invisible string of marriage between you and your partner break. You must never forget this commitment and believe this that getting away or breaking a relationship over small or big issues is very easy but extremely difficult to cope with when you have separated from a loved one, someone like your wife. You must stay committed to your relationship just as you would stay committed to yourself and your passions in life. Never allow bad words or even the thought of letting go of this relationship, even when you are trying to resolve a major issue or involved in an argument with your spouse.
The crux of all this is that you must be committed to communicate and communicate to remain committed. Don’t let small misunderstandings grow into monsters that threaten your relationship just because either of you decided to let the other one apologise and speak up first.

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