In an engaging conversation with Norm Goldman, Editor of Sketchandtravel.com and Bookpleasures.com, Mary Zalmanek, a seasoned romantic travel expert and author, delves into the essence of creating unforgettable romantic experiences. With her book, "The Art of the Spark: 12 Habits to Inspire Romantic Adventures," Mary offers a treasure trove of insights for couples seeking to ignite or rekindle the flame of passion through unique and heartfelt adventures.
Norm Goldman: Today, we are thrilled to welcome Mary Zalmanek, a renowned author and the visionary behind Adventures of the Heart. Mary, we appreciate you taking the time to share your wisdom with us.
Mary Zalmanek: Thank you, Norm. It's a pleasure to be here.
Norm Goldman: Could you give our readers a glimpse into your personal and professional evolution?
Mary Zalmanek: Absolutely. My journey began when I noticed the toll that time was taking on relationships around me—divorces, affairs, and a general loss of that initial spark. I was determined not to become a statistic. My husband and I had always been romantic, but I craved that deeper connection. By consciously nurturing our relationship, we've kept our spark alive for over thirty years.
This personal mission evolved into helping others plan their own romantic celebrations. In 1997, I turned this passion into my business, Adventures of the Heart, and it's been a source of joy ever since.
Norm Goldman: You describe yourself as a Romantic Adventurer. What does that entail?
Mary Zalmanek: A Romantic Adventurer is someone who goes beyond the ordinary to create extraordinary expressions of love. It's about crafting experiences that resonate with intimacy and joy, leaving lasting memories. My goal is to help couples maintain their bond and have fun in the process. I find immense fulfillment in guiding others to celebrate their love in unique and adventurous ways.
Norm Goldman: Many of our readers are seeking advice on romantic getaways. How does your book, "The Art of the Spark," assist in planning these special moments?
Mary Zalmanek: "The Art of the Spark" is a guide to understanding what romance means to you and your partner. It includes a Romance Profile to help couples identify their preferences, shared interests, and comfort levels with surprise and privacy. This framework simplifies the process of finding the perfect romantic destination.
Norm Goldman: How do you generate ideas for your writing, and how do you assess their potential?
Mary Zalmanek: Ideas often stem from my interactions with clients and my own experiences. I look for common threads that resonate with romantic couples. Through workshops and client feedback, I refined these insights into "The Art of the Spark." It's about identifying and teaching habits that inspire creativity in romance.
Norm Goldman: What obstacles did you face while writing your book, and how did you overcome them?
Mary Zalmanek: Like many writers, I grappled with limited time and competing responsibilities. It took seven years to complete the book, but persistence was key. My writing group provided invaluable support and honest feedback, which helped me stay motivated and improve my work.
Norm Goldman: You've had the unique experience of B&B sitting in Costa Rica. Can you tell us about its suitability for romantic occasions?
Mary Zalmanek: Costa Rica is a dream destination for romance. From the rainforest-enveloped Villa Decary to the soothing Tabacon Hot Springs and the thrilling Sky Trek canopy tour in Monteverde, it offers a blend of relaxation and adventure. Places like Vista del Valle Plantation Inn and Hotel Sueno del Mar provide intimate settings perfect for weddings, honeymoons, or getaways. Villa Decary, Sky Trek, and FlorBlanca Resort are just a few examples of the romantic venues available.
Norm Goldman: As a connoisseur of romance, which venues have captured your heart?
Mary Zalmanek: True romance is less about the place and more about the company and mindset. However, I've had memorable experiences in diverse settings, from the secluded Kokopelli's Cave in New Mexico to the luxurious Blackberry Farms in Tennessee. In Colorado, the Broadmoor and The Cliff House at Pikes Peak offer distinct romantic charms. Ultimately, the most romantic spot is one that holds special meaning for you and your partner.
Norm Goldman: What can readers expect from your upcoming books?
Mary Zalmanek: My next books will explore life's non-romantic adventures, focusing on creative celebrations for special people and events, as well as team-building activities that foster camaraderie.
Norm Goldman: How has the Internet played a role in your writing career?
Mary Zalmanek: The Internet is indispensable for research, fact-checking, and communication with my publishing team. It's also a platform for promoting my work and connecting with readers through my website and monthly ezine.
Norm Goldman: Is there anything else you'd like to share with our audience?
Mary Zalmanek: I'm passionate about how people celebrate their relationships. If my insights or stories inspire you, I'd love to hear your experiences. Sharing our stories enriches us all.
Norm Goldman: Thank you, Mary, for your insights and best wishes for your future projects.
Mary Zalmanek: It's been a pleasure, Norm. Thank you for having me.
In this interview, Mary Zalmanek offers a wealth of knowledge for couples looking to deepen their connection through romantic adventures. Her book, "The Art of the Spark," serves as a guide to discovering and embracing the unique elements that make each relationship special. Whether it's a secluded cave dwelling or a luxurious mountain resort, Mary emphasizes that the most romantic experiences are those that are meaningful to the couple. With her upcoming books, she aims to broaden the scope of celebrations to encompass all of life's significant moments.
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