Don't you Like your Engagement Ring ?

After the deep breaths and heartfelt speeches of your fiance' expressing his devotion to you while full of nervousness and excitement, you realize, you don't quite care about the engagement ring he puts on your finger. While you don't want to hurt your soon-to-be husband's feelings by showing that your unhappy with it, it's still be better to share your feeling and thoughts. Anyway, your not alone on having such situation. You will wear your engagement ring everyday, so it must really fit your finger, as well as your lifestyle.

If you dislike your engagement ring, bear in mind that some jewelers are having strict policies regarding on how long you can return or exchange the jewelry you have bought. Usually, that would be two weeks to thirty days. So it means that you should not let the time fly over on how you're going to break your silence and tell him what you really wanted.

There could maybe some times that the engagement ring he presented to you is a family heirloom which once belongs to his mother or grandmother. You were lucky then if ever, but if you hates it, that would be a hard situation to ignore then. Many women prefers to receive an engagement ring especially picked and chosen for them and not a previously owned by someone. Never forget to express your gratitude that you are honored about it, but tell your fiance' your issues, that you would really like to have a ring dedicated solely on your own union.

If your soon-to-be husband is proposing to spend a lifetime with you, then he should atleast know your likes and dislikes. If he presented to you a gold engagement ring that you dislike, you may have a few things to clean up. When your squeeze on that time, gently communicate with him that the kind of ring he have chosen will clash on your jewelry choices and personal preferences. Suggest that the two of you will shop for something that will surely suit your taste and sense of style.

It will doesn't make sense to waste any money on something you would be unhappy or fallen in love with for an engagement ring is a major purchase and investment of your life. Express to him that you really like the gesture he have done, but rather prefer to return it to the store where he bought it, to choose a ring that best suits and accommodate your lifestyle.