Approaching Girls Guide

Loads of guys nowadays are really concerned with how to start a conversation with a woman.  I get why.  It’s that key first point when you move from being absolute strangers to possibly something more.  If you don’t act in the appropriate way, then will probably be a whole lot of sweat to make up for that.  You know what they say, "one can only make a first impression once."

There are many memorized “routines” these days.  You can make up some phony story about your buddy's jealous girlfriend or weird her out by asking her to think about a "cube" in the desert.  There is loads of garbage to choose from.  You truly do not want this stuff.  The truth is it can only get in your way in the future because it’s all lies and you’ll have to continue telling lies to the girl to ensure that she won't find out about the initial lie.  It’s a ton of work and it’s quite uncalled for to start with.

If you would like know how to start a conversation with a girl, the easiest way is to try to be straight forward.  Try to look for something about her or the surroundings that could offer you a reason to speak to her.  Is she reading a novel?  Ask the girl about this!  Does she have one of those new really small net-books?  Ask her about this.  Did someone just get kicked out of the club?  Ask the girl if she saw it.  This stuff really isn’t that challenging.

But what happens if you have nothing at all significant about the scenario?  Are you able to tell me how to start a conversation with a woman now?

If you have totally nothing about the situation worth mentioning, it is likely you aren’t looking hard enough.  But why don't we just assume you’re right.  You may try “How is it going?” or “What’s up?”  These typically don’t go very far.  Personally, I’ve had decent results by asking girls “How is your day going?”  I do not know why, but for reasons unknown, they share a great deal more about themselves if you ask them this question particularly.

If she says some run of the mill response such as, “fine, thanks,” ask the girl if she’s really doing okay or if she only said that without thinking.  A lot of times this will open the woman up for a more honest conversation too.

Following that, you may go on to chat about other things.  Permit the conversation flow naturally and do not start using a lot of scripted lines that come off like you memorized them.  Just ask her questions such as why the girl's friends wanted to go out this evening, or where she’s from, or what type of art or craft she likes as a hobby (believe it or not just about all girls have some kind of artwork or craft related pastime).  Ask more questions, and simply keep the conversation moving.

So, that’s pretty much all there is on how to begin a conversation with a woman.  It’s really easy.  In fact, you should not even think it over excessively because the more you think about it the more you will build it up in your mind as a “serious deal.”