Can Me And My Boyfriend Get Back Together? Simple Technique to Get Him Back
"Should I message my ex boyfriend if I miss him?" That's a question I'm asked on an almost daily basis through emails to my blog. Women get themselves into an emotional place where they long for their ex boyfriend so much that they just want to reach out to him. To these women, sending a text message seems like a safe way to let their ex know they miss him. The problem is that if you're sending that message when you're feeling overwhelmed with feelings of missing him, he's going to be able to read between the lines. He'll see your true motivation and you'll actually be in a worse position than you were before the break up.
There are a million questions running through your head in the days after you're dumped. You wonder if there was another woman involved or if your boyfriend just slowly fell out of love with you. You think endlessly about what you could have done differently and you ache to know whether he misses you as much as you miss him. It's understandable why you'd want answers to all these questions,
but the big one a woman in your situation typically asks is, "can me and my boyfriend get back together?" It's a good question and it comes with a surprising answer. In almost every broken relationship there is a definite chance that the couple can get back together and build a connection that is stronger than ever.
Before you can even consider what you should be doing to win your guy back, you have to deal with the past. Granted break ups can be incredibly messy emotionally but if you don't put it all to rest, it will come back to haunt you two as you work towards reconciling. If your boyfriend was the dumper you may think that you did absolutely nothing wrong and therefore having nothing to apologize for. You're wrong. Just as you both worked together to make things fulfilling for a time, you both had a hand in things falling apart the way they did. You have to own up to whatever you did that may have made him feel that the best route to take was the one that lead out of the relationship. Apologize to him for what you feel you did wrong. It will definitely help to get things moving in a more forward direction.
You know how there are certain things that your boyfriend always found irresistible in you? Those are the things you should be focusing on highlighting now. You want him to see only the best you have to offer. It's advisable that you spend a bit of time transforming yourself into the best version of you that you can possibly be. That's not to advocate that you change who you are for him, but instead make some positive changes for yourself. You'll find that you'll not only feel better but you'll attract better things into your life including a renewed chance with your boyfriend.
Keep an open mind and heart as you move forward towards rebuilding a connection with your ex boyfriend. He may be a bit hesitant to put himself out there again and that's understandable when you consider how painful the break up was for you both. Allow a new friendship to develop between you two and savor every moment of that. Even though your heart may be aching for more, give it time for you both to see each other for the gifts you truly are. If you do that, you'll be building a foundation that will stand the test of time.
