Maybe you have heard it somewhere or maybe some guys have taught you this. Their secrets to seduce and win a woman. I bet that most of them probably would be: being aggressive and little white lies.
If you are looking for a one night stand then those two things definitely are the perfect combination for it, but if you are looking for more than that, if you are looking for a rel relationship then there are some things about the aggressive and lies that we need to fix.
First, there is a big difference between being aggressive (some people call it confident) and being too aggressive. From a woman point of view, if you are pushing her too hard for a face-to-face, you will come across as too aggressive, irritating maybe even, frightening.
Try to remember this, you are not trying to close a business deal here. We are talking about a woman feeling and heart. It takes time and process. You need to take it slow and keep the relationship progressing at a slow but steady pace. Slowly but sure. Patience is the key to win this game.
Little white lies maybe work for a short time but if you want to make it last you need to be honest in the relationship. It is the basic ingredient of a true relationship. One last thing. Most men tend to dream that they have a perfect girlfriend. It is not wrong, but remember that is is just a dream. This is the fact. Nobody is perfect. We all are just human, and humans have flaws and that includes you, as well.
If you expect the woman to be perfect all the time and demand that, you will surely be disappointed. Demanding perfectionism in your job or work is one thing but demanding perfectionism from friends, co-worker or a woman you are interested in is not just fine. It will not happen. Expect flaws and just deal with them. Decide the ones you can live with and those you can not. The choice is yours.
Jaxky
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