How a Woman Flirts to Get Your Attention

It’s all about body language, and women often use body language to show men they are interested. Women who flirt are subconsciously trying to tell you they are interested and want to take things to the next level.

Men sometimes find, though, that interpreting female flirting signals can be challenging. They may term it more of a mystery, in fact. The problem is that women often send flirting signs than can give off mixed information.

For instance, sometimes women who flirt are genuinely attracted to you and want to get to know you. On the contrary, women sometimes are just flirting in a friendly manner and, actually, have no feelings of attraction.

So, the question is how to a guy can depict honest flirting from the friendly (not really interested) flirting.  Though women will remain a challenge to understand, there are ways to help you determine if a woman is sending you a true flirting signal. By learning to identify these flirting signals, you will be in a much better position to figure out of she is attracted to you and interested in getting to know you.

Remember what I said about body language? Well, here is when it comes into play. Women who flirt will often begin flirting with you before you even begin a conversation with her. Here are three flirting cues that mean she is attracted to you and would like you to approach her:

Signal 1: She is constantly looking your way.

When you out trying to meet women, you might notice one who constantly glances your way. When you are in a social setting like a bar or the like, don’t be fooled. Girls will randomly look your way yet are not really interested in you. But, if you find a woman who keeps looking in you direction and checking you out, she is more likely than not flirting with you.

Now, she is definitely interested if she locks eyes with you! This is one of the more obvious flirting signals. 

Keep in mind that eye contact is usually the main way women flirt with guys initially, which means women will typically not approach you to initiate conversation. That ball is in your court. So, if you find a girl glancing your way, go ahead and approach her. She is probably hoping you will.

Signal 2: She is trying to get your attention.

In addition to eye contact, women who flirt because they are interested also make an extra effort to get you attention. She may walk or stand near you several times. If you find her standing by you and her friends are nowhere to be seen, she may be isolating herself from them hoping you start talking to her.

So, if you notice her actively placing herself in a position that you may notice her, you have just picked up on one of the more classic female flirting signs.

Signal 3: She makes eye contact and smiles.

As mentioned briefly earlier, one of the more forward ways women flirt is by locking eyes and smiling. Women who flirt by sending you a smile are telling you that, first, she likes she sees and, second, she wants you to come over.

Typically, women do not casually smile at guys they are not interested in. So, take a smile as a clear sign that she is interested and wants you to approach her.

The three signs above are real ways women flirt to get men to approach them. By paying attention and picking up on these cues, you can be more confident in the fact that she is attracted to you and make your way over. But, it is up to you to notice the flirting signals!