Okay, so a GPS won't help you here, but if you are willing and capable of following some simple direction there is always a way to get your ex back.
So your ex broke up with you and in the early stages you have been calling,
emailing, and texting them. You have been pleading to get them back, and even offering to change for them to make it happen. In the meantime, your ex has already made their decision. The steps you've been taking make you appear weak, and they can seriously harm any chance of getting back together.
If all this sounds familiar, you are on the wrong road and you will never get to your final destination.
How To Get Your Ex To Come Back To YOU
Right now, before things get worse, you need to turn around. The road to reconciliation is a long one, and requires some very difficult steps that may seem wrong to you... but following these steps will lead you in the right direction.
You need to have your ex become the one making the phone calls. They should be trying to get in touch with you, trying to get your attention, and wondering if they made the right decision in breaking things off.
At this point, as hard as it may seem, you must accept the break up, slow down and give the both of you some space. Do not call your ex anymore. As a matter of fact, break off all lines of communication (including social networking such as Facebook or Myspace). This is the time to make your ex boyfriend or girlfriend start wondering what you are up to.
Regaining Your Ex's Positive Attention
Now is the perfect opportunity for you to start feeling good about yourself again. Go out and have a good time. Buy yourself some new clothes, work out, and in general, regain your self esteem. The fact that you are out there having fun (and looking good) will get back to your ex because the two of you did share friends and relatives. The more they hear about you having a great time without them, the better off you'll be... and the more your ex will want you back.
He or she will wonder why it was so easy for you to get over the break up. Your ex has an ego and that ego is fed by the fact that they broke up with you, and that they feel they can bring you back into their life whenever they want. Since you have not called them and have stopped the pleading, they are no longer in control and that ego is longer being fed. This is a huge step on the road to making your ex want you again.
Getting Your Ex To Miss You
Now that you are on the right road, your ex will start to miss you.
After all, you did have a relationship at some point. There were some great times that are hard to forget. Now that you have made yourself unavailable, your ex will begin to remember those times. This is the point where they will begin to question the reason for the break up in the first place.
Play your cards right, and soon you'll be in the driver's seat. You'll have stopped the begging, and you no longer seem weak. You'll also have regained you self esteem, and probably look better and feel more confident. On top of all this, you have made your ex wonder about you
and even begin to miss you.
This is the point where your ex will attempt to contact you again. Don't take any steps in their direction at this point... not immediately, anyway. Be cautious and even cool at the initial stages. The right reconnection techniques will put you both on the road to a successful reconciliation.
