How to Make a Woman Fall in Love with You

We all want to be adored. Wouldn't it be great to have a gorgeous girl gazing at you lovingly, listening to you with rapt attention, and leaning in for yet another kiss?

Well, you can have.

Getting a woman to fall for you is not as hard as it may seem. It doesn't require expensive gifts, extravagant gestures or rock hard abs. In fact, all it requires is a little charm and a few good manners – and I'm about to explain exactly how to develop them.

Self-conscious men have a habit of putting women on pedestals. To some extent, this can work in your favor; there's no better way of getting a girl to like you than showing that you like her. But if you've managed to convince yourself that every hot chick you see is too pretty to pay any attention to you, it's time to do some re-thinking.

Start by reminding yourself that most single girls are looking for love. This means that no matter how you see yourself, she sees you as an available male – and she is not going to reject you unless you give her good reason to.

Remember also that girls are just as nervous as guys are. She might seem like a goddess to you, but when a girl looks in the mirror all she sees are her flaws. She is just as anxious about her appearance and just as nervous about making conversation as any man could be.

Girls want to impress you. They want you to like them. They want to feel sexy. All you need to know is a few simple tricks for getting and keeping their attention.

Start by making sure you look the part. Keep yourself clean and well groomed. Wear smart clothes which suit you. Stand up straight with your shoulders back and your head held high. Take pride in your appearance and develop a confident stance and you will instantly seem more attractive.

Don't be afraid to approach women. Making eye contact and smiling over at her are a good start but, as very few women are prepared to make the first move, if you want something to happen you're going to have to go over and introduce yourself. It may seem daunting at first, but remember that chicks find attention flattering – offer her a drink and she will take the time to respond.

When you get talking, listen to what she's saying and ask leading questions. Girls are so used to men speaking to their chest that if you can maintain eye contact and show an interest in her opinions she will be thrilled to have met you.

When you talk about yourself, be confident without bragging. Don't boast about your achievements and never bemoan your bad luck. Instead, talk passionately about your hobbies and interests or switch the topic of conversation back to her by paying her genuine compliments.

Do bear in mind that every man she speaks to will be telling her she's hot. Make your compliments stand out by tailoring them to fit. Admire her quirky outfit, her tinkling laugh or her incredible stories – figure out what's unique about her, then tell her why it's great.

Take the time to get to know her properly. If you come on strong early on you may appear to be either needy or sleazy, so don't put her under sexual pressure. By letting her control the pace you will make her feel respected, appreciated and more able to trust you. And the more she trusts you, the more into you that girl is going to be.