Myth Busting - The Gold Digger
Today we are going to have a look at another label that gets bandied around a bit, and that is the "gold digger". The gold digger is the unkind name given to a woman who specifically seeks to date ...
Today we are going to have a look at another label that gets bandied around a bit, and that is the "gold digger".
The gold digger is the unkind name given to a woman who specifically seeks to date a wealthy, financially successful man.Once again, these types of label are really unfriendly and donot help people find their ideal partner at all.
Lets have a look at reality. We live in a diverse world, a worldwhere there are people who strive and are successful in a millionvariations of existance. The very definition of "success" changesas it is thought about by every unique person. One of these existances is the reality of abundance, of the wealthy. Such a reality has its own pressures, its own ups and downs. Just havea look at any gossip column if you think people who live in opulance live a totally charmed life. The reality is starkly different.
This is not a lifestyle for everyone. I know, the invasion of privacy a celebrity faces everyday would drive me insane in aboutone week. Further, I'd prefer a fullfilling life with my family than give the priority and commitment to career that many of thewealthy have. But this is just me. In our amazing world of difference and variety, there are people who can only exist withthe benefits... and pressures, ups and downs, of such an existance.Living in such a reality is what brings out the best in them and is the reality where they can be "whole".
So why is it, that when someone understands themself, knows thatthis type of lifestyle is the one they need to be the best personthey can be and goes out to find a partner who has a similar viewon life, they are labelled a "gold digger". Its just silly. Onceagain, it seems people label other people based on another typeof intolerance.
If you are being honest with yourself, if you know what you need tobe the best person you can be, just go for it. If in your circumstance, this means finding a wealthy or successful partner,great. Good luck. We want to help, despite the detractors and tothis end we have set up the following page where we review websiteswhich have specifically been designed for matching weathly peoplewith partners who want to be with wealthy people. Here is the page:Dating Wealthy Men
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