Needy Men - Why Women Turned Off To Them

It is true that not every woman thinks negatively about needy men. But it is also the truth that - even when they have positive image about their seemingly needy guy friends - most women hardly consider it seriously to make those needy guys as more than just friends.

Why is that? What are the signs? What traits that can make a man be marked as needy by women? Let's see some of them now, the most important ones.

    
• Nervousness. It is common that when a man attracted to a woman very much, he will be nervous when he is around that woman or when he is talking with her. Although this is commonly found among men and women, to men nervousness can lessen his chances to make successful approach to the woman. Not only because of the nervousness will make him too scared to approach her, but also because that nervousness can make the girl thinks of him as needy and clingy, not man enough to be considered as a potential romantic partner. 
    
    
• Lack of leading quality. There is no other way:  women naturally attracted to men who have leading qualities. In spite of the the advent of feminisms, still women could not deny their naturally built-in preferences to be lead instead of leading in their relationships. So, don't always let your next-to-be girlfriend to decide what you both will do or where to go for dates. It is your job. Show that you can lead, and she will see that you are not one of those boring needy men.
    
    
• Lack of confidence. Along with lack of leading quality, confidence is the most important thing that every man must have for successful approach on women. The way  needy men behave hardly shows this quality. Strong confidence as well as decisiveness that implies good leading quality are very attractive to women. At the other hand, the absence of these quality will quickly turn them off.
    
    
• Insecurity. Insecurity and lack of confidence are like codependent twins. Where there is insecurity, there must be lack confidence behind it and where there is lack of confidence, insecurity is always there, too. Insecurities will make the one who suffers it become over-jealous or very possessive. It can also makes you feel the need to always know what your partner's doing thus makes you call or text her numerous times a day.
    
    
• Too available. Do you always say yes to the girl you like if she asks you to, for example, accompany her shopping? Even when actually you have something else to do that you have planned weeks or months before? If yes, the stop that! It will only make her perceive you as a guy that has no life. One of those needy men who always needs somebody else  (read: herself) to get his life meaningful.    

  At first she might be happy or feel flattered for having someone   that she knows she can rely on for help. But soon she will not regard it special anymore. She will take it for granted instead, thinking as if she deserves it and it is your duty to serve her whenever she wants.

      

Those are few of the signs of needy men. If you find yourself behaving like what described above, please stop and shape yourself to become the man that women dream!