The Art Of Turning A First Date Into A Second Date...

Mar 2
07:46

2010

Matt Fuller

Matt Fuller

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A first date, first and foremost means both daters should leave their personal problems at the door. Dating is suppose to be the possibility of a new beginning, so talking about your past grievances is a sure way to kill the mood.

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Lots of single people these days have come from past relationships that may involve baggage that include various emotional issues such as commitments to children,The Art Of Turning A First Date Into A Second Date... Articles the ex or even an annoying pet! No matter what walk of life a potential love interest comes from, they will have issues to a certain degree. Remember, no one is perfect. It's normal that subjects will come up regarding your past, but don't dwell on such subjects - a first date is about the possibility of moving into the future.

Don't go in for the kill too quickly. If you find yourself very attracted to your date, don't make the evening uncomfortable. Just because you find yourself instantly attracted to your date doesn't mean they have reciprocated the same sentiment - not yet anyway. It may take them a little time to feel at ease in your company, so stay calm, relaxed and let the magic of love occur if it is meant to be.

Take measures to improve your level of attractiveness. You need to feel happy and confident within yourself before other people can be attracted to you. If you are on a date and are feeling depressed and anxious, you will radiate these feelings of negativity to your date, make the best impression you can and turn up to your big night out feeling on top of the world! - go for a work out or get a massage before your date - get those endorphins flowing.

With being single comes a degree of loneliness. However, rule number 1 for first dates - don't look desperate! Sure you might be in a lonely frame of mind, but do keep things upbeat. Many of us are lonely to some degree, and that goes for people who are in unhappy relationships too. Just because you are lonely does not mean you should settle for second best either.

Also be conscious of how engaging your date is. Is he or she offering their full attention? Do they seem distracted? If they are distracted during the date it normally means they are not interested or attracted to you, or they have issues in their life that don't even allow them to relax and take their mind off things. Either way, a distracted date is not a positive sign.

Online datingis the new way for love - just ask any young single person. And with chat rooms or video chat being the norm when it comes to dating sites, it simply takes out all the guess work - you can see what you're getting yourself into. According to a recent online news publication, there are more than 100 million singles registered for online dating worldwide.

Becoming successful at dating comes down to you and no one else. The value and importance you place in yourself is how others will also see you. Confidence is sexy, people are easily influenced by positive people.

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