What Do I Say to Get My Girlfriend Back? The Right Words to Melt Her Heart
Your relationship has ended. Your man left and now you don't know where to begin trying to get her back. Women aren't going to be very impressed by what you say to try to get them back. You need to learn what to do to get her back instead.
You might be saying one thing while she's hearing something completely different. Have you ever complimented the way a dress brings out her eyes only to see her looking at you horrified and accusing you of telling her it makes her look fat? This might be a somewhat extreme example but I'd be willing to bet something along these lines has happened in your relationship.
Women try to make their words mean so many different things while men have a tendency to say exactly what they mean. You may mean noting more and nothing less than what you said but that's rarely what she hears. It can be a bit confusing making the mental translation from one to the other.
Many times it isn't what you say that matters nearly as much as how you say it. If you're having trouble finding the right words to say to her consider putting it in writing. When you spell things out in black and white you can avoid saying the wrong thing in the heat of the moment (not that you'd ever stick your foot in your mouth but the odds are good that you both know how to push each other's buttons). It also allows you to make sure you say everything you mean to say without leaving anything out. More importantly, it gives you the opportunity to read it all together and see how it sounds before she gets the message.
Tell her your sorry. Acknowledge that you've caused her pain. Accept responsibility. Explain how you've changed. Ask for the opportunity to make things right. You'll be amazed at the results.
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