Behaving on a First Date at the Best Boston Restaurant - Part 1

Feb 4
07:14

2012

Paul Marino

Paul Marino

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You worked up the courage to ask out the pretty blonde from work and now it’s game on. Now you are driving yourself crazy looking over a guide to find the Best Boston Restaurant because you want to impress the heck out of the night…

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You worked up the courage to ask out the pretty blonde from work and now it’s game on. Now you are driving yourself crazy looking over a guide to find the Best Boston Restaurant because you want to impress the heck out of this broad. “How fancy should it be,” you ask yourself. “What should I wear,” you say as you dig frantically for your best clothes. The problem is,Behaving on a First Date at the Best Boston Restaurant  -  Part 1 Articles while your skinniest tie and sport jacket certainly won’t hurt, it is really all about how you carry yourself when it comes to scoring big points with the ladies. Fine dining establishments give men the opportunity to act like they are cultured for an evening and, seeing as first dates are often very telling, you need to be ready to knock this one out of the park.

 

There are a few things you’re going to want to plan for as your prepare for your big date. The first thing, and some would say most important of all, is to plan for awkward pauses in the conversation. They may come at the beginning of the evening as you’re getting to know each other or at the end as you slowly begin to run out of small details to discuss and the hideous blush of awkwardness begins to settle over your conversation. Don’t worry, though - this is why we are creating a contingency plan. This will be an emergency discussion topic to be used only once you have thoroughly exhausted such engaging talking points as the weather, her preference for dogs or cats, and viciously gossiped about every possible person at work.  Your emergency topic must be engaging enough to carry you until the end of the meal or at least get you back on course. One tried and true idea is sharing with her your hopes and dreams. Women love a man who is ambitious, so share your plans to conquer the world and start your own company. You should probably leave out the part about yachting your way across the globe with a boatful of Megan Fox lookalikes. There is such a thing as too much ambition.

           

The next preparation you will want to make is learning a few words in the language of whatever restaurant it is you end up at. Some of the Best Boston Restaurants are Italian and French, so you will want to know just enough to order the wine in whichever language, because women dig that stuff.  Maybe you can even learn a bit about the culture. A few historic facts or pretentious comments about architecture can go a long way. Don’t let them go too long, though. You may end up putying her right to sleep and now is not the time fore that.

 

I mentioned dress a little earlier and I would like to touch on that again. The bottom line here is that you need to dress to kill. If your not sure how to go about doing that, ask a girl who knows fashion to go shop with you or if your strapped for cash, ask her to dig through your closet and do her best. Continued in part 2…

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