Stop Premature Ejaculation the Natural Way and Maximize Her Sexual Pleasure

Premature Ejaculation has long been considered one of the most common male sexual dysfunction yet not too many men find it an easy topic to discuss either with their partners or their doctors. It could be the fear of being rejected or misunderstood that stops most men suffering from premature ejaculation to openly discuss it. However, the first step in addressing this problem is realizing that if you're suffering from PE, you're not alone! About 30% of men all over the world will at one time or another experience weakened ejaculation control. The good news is that 80% of those who suffer from PE can find cure through therapy.

Much media hype have been circulated regarding magic pills, lotions or creams which supposedly promise the best cure for premature ejaculation. However, most of these products are just temporary solutions and more often than not have no real scientific study to back their claims. In fact, to date, no drug has been approved by the Food and Drug Administration (FDA) for the cure of premature ejaculation. There are also many internet scams that prey on the vast number of potential buyers of these pills, creams or lotions that promise sexual longevity.

What can really do men who suffer from this condition a lot of good is to find out more information about the condition in order to understand its causes. What exactly is premature ejaculation? Using the most number of male subjects (1,587 men, 207 of which have premature ejaculation, and 1,380 do not) a study which appeared in the Journal of Sexual Medicine indicated that those who suffer from PE ejaculate within 1.8 minutes after sexual penetration, compared to 7.3 minutes in men who did not. Put simply though, premature ejaculation maybe defined as an early sexual release that occurs prior to a man's wish or before he could bring his partner to an orgasm.

There are many causes of PE, but the most common one is a man's inability to control his arousal level where it peaks up sooner than he desires. Arousal is an elevated response brought about by too much excitement. The excitement is usually brought about by not having sex too often or by an anxiety to either get the job done fast or to perform well. One way to overcome premature ejaculation then is to control that arousal level, in order to sustain the sex act long enough to provide your partner satisfaction. This can be done by not focusing too much on the sex act itself but on the sensations you and your partner are going through. Relaxation techniques such as taking deep breaths can have a soothing, calming effect that can delay arousal. Paying attention to your partner's "g spots" or her arousal points can also take your mind off your own and therefore delay ejaculation.

Premature ejaculation is not a totally hopeless condition. The best solution to the problem is to engage your partner in an open discussion of the situation. Finding help is easier with a supportive partner who understands that the condition is curable and that communication is the key to an improved sexual experience.