How often have you wondered lately if
there's some magic formula that would get your ex to answer the
phone? Well, there may not be 'magic words', but there are certainly
some secrets from psychology that will seem magical when you use
Is there a 'magic' formula you can use to get your ex
to take or return your phone calls?
It's not hard to believe that
there ARE words tuned to your ex's mental condition that will
virtually cast a spell. The secret is to have a plan both before
and after your ex feels almost compelled to return your call.
of us are aware that words can have a powerful affect on the human
mind, but what words will get the effect that you want?
going to share this secret with you because this is one of the
biggest questions from people just like you who are trying to put
their relationship back together. So I am going to answer..."What
phrases will virtually guarantee that I get my ex to return my phone
call, text or IM?"
Here we go...
but before we get into the actual words, let's go over what
message almost NEVER works.
and worse... (you can guess 'the
worse'), puts you in an AWFUL 'psychological' position.
NEVER, Never say these things!
"never phrases" usually fall into 2 categories.
The PLEAD - Where the message sounds
please, please call me. This is the 3rd
time I have called. I HAVE to talk to you." and,
2. the EMERGENCY:
"Cindy, this is an emergency. Please call me
as soon as you get this."
You can probably see what is
wrong with either of those approaches?
So, I won't go on and
on... Here's a power key you need to know:
Curiosity & Self Interest To Your Advantage
of the most powerful forces in the human mind are
here's the BIG SECRET!
When you combine these two
forces, you create a power that will literally work
Let's look at how to harness the two most
powerful mental forces for your benefit.
In a friendly tone,
"Hi Sarah. It's Mark. I wanted to let you know I
appreciate what you did for me. Call me because I want to thank you
Do you see BOTH curiosity and self interest
hidden in that phrase?
Sarah will NOT be able to resist! "What
did I do?" "What does he appreciate?" she will be
thinking. And she feels good because it is a positive message. She
doesn't feel the normal 'dread' of your calls.
you call be sure to decide on something that he/she did that you
appreciate. You must be ready to carry on the conversation when it
starts. It can be any small thing...but needs to be plausible. If you
apply this powerful technique to open the door, but have no
underlying strategy, you'll do more DAMAGE than good when they
call you back.
That's simple enough isn't it?
I am saying is...
What you do before, during and after you get
them to return your call is MORE important than getting them to
return your call.
Just a warning though.
Have a PLAN and be ready to follow the plan during your
Worried you'll mess up the call once your ex calls you back? Don't
worry. There's a simple but magical
formula that will take you from phone call to your wildest wish.
For an excellent way I've found to get the magic power of human
psychology working for you, not against you,