Don't take things so seriously!

Life is sometimes just what it is. Sometimes you can control a situation and other times you cannot. However, we sometimes become so caught up in the direction and desire that we lose concept of the current location and the ultimate destination.

Don't allow things to interfere with your life by absorbing them into your soul and mental workings. It is important to be responsible for yourself and your actions, but not about those things that just go on around you.

Take the time to enjoy the journey and don't worry so much about the destination. If we're only worried about where we're going, then we'll miss out on the small gifts and the important lessons that we need to learn along the way.

Take the time to see the humorous side of life's occurrences instead of the horrific side of every event. For those events that we cannot control, just enjoy the process and let it slide. Grab what you can out of the situation and let it go by without interfering with your direction and desires. For those things that you can control, realize that they are simply part of your life and desired direction. Work to make them benefit you and enjoy the process that you made happen.

When you accept responsibility for situations that affect you and enjoy the humorous side of life, your perspective and your approach will be more balanced. You will be able to function better under stress and be able to move forward with ease.

Realize that we all fail or make mistakes at some time in our life. Lighten up! You'll bounce back from disappointments and embarrassing moments more quickly, and more people will have a greater respect for you --- and you for yourself.

--- About the Author ---

Edward B. Toupin is an author, life-strategy coach, counselor, Reiki Master, technical writer, and PhD Candidate living in Las Vegas, NV. Among other things, he authors books, articles, and screenplays on topics ranging from career success through life organization and fulfillment. Check out some of his recent print and electronic books as well as his articles covering various life-changing topics!