Praveen Sherman

How to blow your Problems out of proportion?

I Love failures.....whaat?Am i Insane to say this...No..everyone has failures and problems in their life and if they don't they don't have a life.Our work is not get crimpled by fear but dare to face it and challenge it and Embrace it and use it for our drive.How to do this..?

We all set out to achieve the best in our life. In all areas of life we have our own dreams, likes and dislikes. Interestingly whatever happens life moves on. The journey could be as smooth as you want if you wish it to be.

Your life is a like a journey in a raft. The raft is built in a way that it can balance well in the journey. You hold the oars and guide the raft the way you want. You can shake the raft and make it sink or you can hold on the rails and make it cruise it.

Your life is like the raft. It is built in a way that there is a good balance (in all the areas of life such as growth, inner peace, relationships, joy and many more) which you make your life smooth and enjoyable. If a journey is rough it is not enjoyable. You feel like letting go, make others control your life or feel like just ending the journey. You do not look forward for the next journey and only wait for it to end.

You hold the raft, the oars. Who makes the choice to make the journey rough? You have problems on the way? Definitely yes, but can they be avoided? The sea is rough or there are too many hitches that delay our journey. We see them as potential problems. We don’t look at them as challenges that we can overcome. Problems can seldom be faced. You tend to give up, grudge on it and take a deep rooted hesitation to move forward.

Rollback to look at the various small and big hurdles that you have faced in your life when you move towards your desired outcomes. Were you in control of these hurdles? The moment you start believing that you cannot do anything about these, there is no way that you will come out of these. Because that’s when you start seeing these small hitches and hurdles as Problems.

Problems exist for those who attract it. Interestingly the human emotion works against self. You tend to blow up the these problem. You want to focus on only these hurdles and make them look bigger which automatically makes you feel in a state of despair and a mental state of not being in control. Imagine how would it be when a F1 Car drive believes that he is not in control when the car goes out of control? CRASH! Will this happen to your life too? Chances are definitely high. If the environment supports you, then you fall back on track.

Whatever happen just believe that you are the one who takes these as hurdles. When you face these hurdles, there are many others who face even more. You are gifted to handle these with more ease. You blow a balloon with problems and it inflates so much that you feel its too much. However all it takes is just a small needle to burst the balloon to relieve yourself of the problems what you face. You have the needle with you all the time. Just use it whenever you need it. Your choice to break the balloon is the choice you make to drift and cruise along with the raft and sail smooth in your life, enjoy, grow and be happy.

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