Make love not war.

Love makes the world go around. Like the old song was saying. I like that. Think about a world without love. How would it be for you? Take the time to be out in the nature. Listen to the birds, smell the trees and why not hug the trees?

Sounds strange? Well it is ok to do crazy things. Not only ok it is a must. Take a chance, take some risks. Make life a challenge. Invite the luck. Love can be in so many different areas. Maybe it is possible to sense them all if we are open minded. Try to remember the first time you felt love. When was it? Who was giving it to you? Could it be a surrounding of love or the nature? It can come from different places and sources. You just have to embrace it. To be able to achieve love it is good be open for it. We shall not be prejudging where and who is giving it to us. Why not make a wishing list if you are looking for a partner? It is good to be as specific as possible too. Not only for how he/she would look like but the inner qualities as well. Look for a loving surrounding in your life. Do you love the place you live in? Is it placed where you want it to be? Many people like to have pets instead of close relationship. That’s fine too. Please do not make a reason to have a pet instead of a spouse because of fear to open up your heart. Life is supposed to give us abundance of love. We are also entitled to abundance of what ever we desire. So why should we be satisfied with less? We can end up in strange situations like death, diseases etc when we loose our love ones. That’s true. I think it is vital to have built up a net of loving friends and relatives that you can lean on when it is time. The more love you have shared with them the more they will give you back. You know the saying the more you give the more you will receive. I believe strong in that. There are no risks in giving to much love. Many people say that the risk of giving love is the chance of never get anything back. Well I think if you force the love to come back from the same direction you gave it that’s where the problems start. Let the love be free. You can not hold on to it. Let it flow. It is like you are opening a cage for birds. They will not leave if they are happy and have love. It is the same with love. Set it free and it will come back if it is right. Here is where the jealousy kicks in. People like to control the other for giving love. How can we direct a feeling? We can feel love in so many different areas that it’s not possible to control it. We can fall in love in moments, in people regardless of sex, animals, nature and I am sure you can picture other areas too. Get out there and make love not war. Make friends not enemies. It is harder to love enemies so convert them first. Most of all be happy and filled with love.