Knowing What Women Want: How To Get A Date

If you are interested in a woman, have recently met a woman, or are looking to develop a relationship with someone in the near future, it is helpful to know a bit about what women want and how you can best achieve those things. If you have no idea, as many times these things are not made clear, then it would behoove you to be familiar with some of the things that make women happy. This can be the way that you can smoothly embark on a relationships that might be one of the most important of your entire life.

In fact, lots of times, the things women want are viewed as common sense to them and when you don't know it and don't do it, they feel that you don't care or that something is wrong with you. But, if you are aware of these things, it can help you better connect with the special woman in your life and establish a beneficial relationship for you both.

The thing that women really want above all else is to be heard and respected. If a woman feels like she is being heard then you are on the right track. But, just listening to what she says is not enough because anyone can just listen. Part of active listening includes responding, asking for further elaboration, and investing yourself in the conversation. When someone is telling you about their day or something that happened and you are spacing out or vaguely responding, the person can tell that you are not interested and that translates as you not being interested in the individual who is speaking. Especially in the beginning, a woman will gauge whether you are listening to her, how well you are listening, and she will measure your level of interest based on the follow up questions you ask and how responsive you are afterward.

Also, another way to show that you are a good listener and have heard all that she says is to store it to memory and mention it later. For example if she tells you about her favorite books and movies or some unique quirk about her, commit it to memory and later on you can stun her by recalling it. Nothing is more heartwarming then later proof that a man really listened and valued the tidbit of information important enough to remember.

In addition to being heard, women like to be treated with respect and special admiration. Particularly, in the beginning, a woman likes to be appreciated. Now, appreciation can come in a wide variety of forms and depending on the woman and her preferences, she will prefer appreciation in different ways. But some ways to show you appreciate her is to simply tell her and to simply say thanks for the things that she does. Whether that be doing your laundry for you, listening to your problems, or just being a positive figure in your life. Admiration can come in the form of flowers or other tokens that express your gratitude in a romantic way that is sure to brighten her day.