Life, Liberty and The Pursuit Of Happiness
Itís interesting that the Founding Fathers didnít describe our inalienable rights as life, liberty and happiness, but the pursuit of happiness. They were onto something.
Itís while youíre in the process of getting what you want that you have the most profound experience of life flowing through you. Of course, youíll find pleasure in the outcomesóricher relationships, health, inner peace, confidence, wealth, etc.
But the greatest joy in life is found in the hotfooted pursuit of happinessóreaching, stretching, creating, learningóand delighting yourself with what you can achieve and how smart youíre becoming.
As youíre getting the hang
of how the process of finding fulfillment works, there are 4 questions you can
use to get the most leverage out of each desire.
1) How much passion does this desire inspire in
you? Passion brings its friends
imagination, creativity and boundless energy to the party.
The desire that inspires deeper passion will bring along more of the resources you need to fulfill it. Thus, the strongest desires swing the biggest crowbar, giving you the leverage to get what you most want with less effort.
2) Whatís the meaning behind what youíre
pursuing? Every desire consists of
a least two layers. This surface layer consists of a physical object (like a
car), or a tangible acquisition (like a job).
The second, deeper layer consists of the flavor(s)
of happiness youíll feel when you have it: secure, free, joyful, fulfilled,
peaceful, gratified, loved, etc.
When you connect your actions to the feeling you
want, then your passion (and its friends) greases the skids. Itís so much
easier to get what you want when your enthusiasm carries you along, spawning
one brilliant idea after another until youíve finally got it.
3) Will you have to stretch yourself a bit in
order to pursue this desire? Woven
through every strand of your DNA is the drive to learn and grow. You'll tap
into your creativity to figure out how to get what you want. Your confidence
will grow. And it feels good.
So good, in fact, that itís addictive. The more you
get, the more you want. The best part is that the more you grow, the more able
youíll be to grow more. The more tools youíll developóconfidence, clarity,
resourcefulness and wisdom.†
4) Is this desire exciting, but a little scary,
too? As my avid readers know, fear
is your signal that youíre stepping out of your comfort zone; youíre taking a
A 2-ton boulder falling from the sky onto your head is scary. A speck of dust, not so much. The key is to break down a risk enough that you can move forward.
Living in fear keeps you stuck. Taking zero risk
gets tedious, boring and defies your DNA. You donít get wiser by doing nothing.
Wisdom comes from taking calculated
Think it through. Break it down into manageable steps. Then take one baby step after another. Youíll get there.
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ABOUT THE AUTHOR
Judy Widener is a Certified Life Coach and author of Power For A Lifetime: Tools You Customize to Build Your Personal Power Every Day Of Your Life. Her passion is assisting her clients to discover what is most important to them, then create more balance and satisfaction in their lives. Empowerment Life Coaching is a comprehensive program that teaches clients simple ways to build their personal power and overcome obstacles to achieving their dreams. Judy has coached more than 600 people in the past 13 years. Her website is www.myinnerfrontiers.com.