What Could be Hiding in Your Emotional Closet?

Feb 19
11:22

2007

Judith A. Wentzel

Judith A. Wentzel

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Are you tired of struggling just to get by? Do you feel stuck? Learn how to identify the problem and remove the block.

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Do you struggle,What Could be Hiding in Your Emotional Closet? Articles living from paycheck to paycheck?

Do you feel stuck?

Are you in the relationship you desire?

Do you continue to incur more and more debt?

So often I see people struggling in their careers trying to get ahead.  They work so hard in jobs they don’t like trying to earn a living.

Some seem to go from one bad relationship into another.

It is uncommon to come across a person that is actually living their passion, working in a job they adore and has the life they desire.  Why is this?

Shouldn’t we all be entitled to live our dreams, having an abundant, high quality life?

The answer is YES!  However, many of us are held back because of self limiting beliefs.  These beliefs are generally tucked neatly away in our subconscious.  They lay, hiding in our “emotional closets”, creating blocks, preventing us from achieving our goals and desires.

I firmly believe that life was never intended to be a constant struggle.  But for many, that seems to be exactly what they experience.  A lot has to do with the Law of Attraction.  A lot has to do with how we view the world, life, work, love and other issues.  Most often when we do not succeed in attaining our goals, there generally is a self-limiting belief at the root of the issue.

What are self limiting beliefs and where do they come from?

A self limiting belief starts out innocently enough.  Generally a parent or some other authoritative figure in our life imparted words of wisdom on us at a very early age in our development.  Perhaps you may have heard something along the line of:  “you must get good grades if you want to be successful” or how about “money changes people” or perhaps you were told “nothing in life comes easy” or “life isn’t fair”.  Whatever the phrase may have been, if you heard it often enough, it transformed from words into a thought and then into a belief.  Beliefs are difficult to conquer unless you know how.

The key is to uncover the self-limiting belief at the start.

How do you know you have a self-limiting belief?  If you have been working towards a goal, envisioning yourself obtaining it, keeping optimistic thoughts about it and gearing everything in your power toward achieving it and you are still without it, you have a block and that block is most likely a self limiting belief.

Working with a Law of Attraction coach can help you uncover these beliefs as well as provide you with tools and techniques that will allow you to dissolve these beliefs and rid your “emotional closet” of them.

Once free from the negative effects of a self limiting belief, you will notice a marked increase in the way you feel.  Many people feel lighter, more peaceful, some even a bit giddy.  Their emotions have been raised markedly by the removal of the negative feelings and emotions triggered by their self limiting belief.  They no longer have those negative feelings or emotions such as doubt or fear hovering around their goal or desire.  They are free and able to pursue their dream.

Speaking from personal experience, being free from a self limiting belief really makes you feel so much better.  I immediately felt much lighter and happier and became much more confident.  Soon, I began to see my career turn in the direction I desired.  It was a wonderful experience and has helped make me a much better, more effective coach.

Perhaps it’s time to take a closer look at your own life.

Are you working in a job you love?  Do you have the money you desire?  Are you in a good, loving relationship?  Do you live in the home of your dreams? 

If you are not achieving the goals you desire, you may need to look into what may be hiding in your “emotional closet” and consider hiring a Law of Attraction Coach to help you remove the stumbling blocks to your success.  Like me, many Law of Attraction Coaches offer free sample sessions.  So, if you aren’t living the life you desire, isn’t it time to take the next step?  I am sure glad I did.