Advice on First Time Sex

First time sex may be discomforting for some to even think about it because of the infamous fact that first time sexual intercourse is painful. Here are a few sex tips for first time sex that will help you be more satisfied than unhappy.Put safety on the top: - There is nothing in the world that can assure you absolute safety while having sex, though you can be safer. Ensure that either of you is wearing a condom. Discuss about your sexual histories with each other because it is important to know what kind of women or men your partner has been with. Heterosexual women are likely to contract sexually transmitted diseases than men.Do not have high expectations: - Ensure that you do not have high expectations in terms of sexual performance from your partner. Sex usually improves as you and your partner get to know each other.Breathe easy: - First time sex may be unnerving, nerve-wracking and not to forget, painful sometimes. Take long and deep breaths to help you relax.Enjoy foreplay: - Make sure that you enjoy everything that goes up to intercourse such as kissing, fondling, oral sex etc.Arouse amply before intercourse: - Make sure that you do not lead up to intercourse too quickly. To have a satisfactory sex, not only must you be completely turned on nut also lubricated enough. If you are dry, you will find it difficult to let your partner enter you. Friction due to lack of lubrication may cause the condom to tear. If you dry out beforehand, ensure that you keep a water-based lube handy.Do not assume your partner to be an expert: - Your partner may be getting a lot of details on how to go about sexual intercourse, which does not imply that he would be as great as his knowledge on sex. Even if your partner has been with other women, every sexual encounter is unique.Do not expect an orgasm: - It is difficult for most women to have an orgasm at the time of sex, especially the first few times because it is only after knowing each other body and reactions to certain external stimuli that a woman can relax completely.Don’t fake an orgasm: - Do not fake an orgasm and if you do, you will only be cheating yourself. Letting your partner know that you were at the brink of an orgasm will motivate him to work towards it the next time.