The article talks about ways a person can fulfill his/her sexual desires and explains how society makes it difficult for us. It explains ways in which either you or along with your partner can try to fullfill your own sexual desires.
Most of us love sex and have secret sexual desires. We think much more of the sex than we talk about it. Sexuality is the base of our personal relationships and is an important consideration when we start a family. But even in a long term relationship or in a family regularly returns the need of new sexual experiences. In a lucky case we can fulfill these desires with our existing partner,
but in most of the cases our fantasy needs something new, something else. So with or without our partner we try to follow our secret desires, and do a lot for them. There are more difficult and also easier, more comfortable ways to have an interesting sexual life, everybody can find the best matching activity.
Having a stable partner is the best way to fulfill our everyday sexual desires. And if we need more or something else? We can change our partner. Sounds to be done easily, but all we know that changing our partner regularly is neither easy nor assures the desired result, except a few lucky cases. So if we live in a family or have a long a long term relationship, a really stable partner, having secret lover is a hardly working solution. The lover can accept our family, but it won't happen vice versa. Changing their partner regularly can be a perfect and interesting way of getting new sexual experiences for those, who don't plan long term relationship. Others have to find better matching ways, and fortunately there are lot of them.
Having sexual adventures without relationship can mean buying sexual services, if available where we live. Except the moral questions what an emotionless night means, and that these services usually are rather expensive, this is a working solution for many people, although usually both the service provider and the user of the services will be deprecated by friends and relatives, if the thing gets publicity. Still this way of buying sexual experiences is less risky than keeping a lover, but is not really accepted in our society, and it is always a sensitive topic to talk about. So most of people will looking for most accepted and most simple way of having new sexual experiences, even if these ways lack of personal contact.
Without the magic of personal contact there are the sex magazines and erotic movies. The selection is huge and relatively cheap, much cheaper than buying real sexual services. Our fantasy helps to forget the missing live contact. Another advantage is that we can get various experiences very quickly. The risk of being surprised by our partner is minimal if we can find a good secret place for our favorite magazine or video, but we recommend to share the experience with our partner. Watching erotic movies is namely not only a lonely activity. It can be very exciting doing it together with our partner, and helps to come to know her/his secret desires.
Erotic pictures and movies mean a kind of virtual world of sexuality, where we have no personal contact, thing happen mostly in our head. As it is a virtual world, the Internet changed its appearance considerably. Moreover, erotic pictures and videos are the best selling virtual goods on the net. Thousands of web sites offer erotic content, in most of cases cheaper than the well known local special shops. We can easily find the content matching our sexual fantasies, and all that sitting in an armchair at home. Complete privacy assured. Here we can also see, that there is no fantasy existing only in our head.
Internet and new technologies offer however much more. The net makes the possibility of personal contacts again, and integrates it into the erotic content. This way the sexual experience is much more interesting and intensive. Using a
online 3D sex games, we can find partners with similar sexual interest, and we can play interactive sex games with each others virtual character. It is like an interactive porn movie with real partners, where we are the actors, the directors and the viewers. Anonymity is assured, but we can try the game with our existing partner or spouse. That is the best way to try new things and see what our partner thinks of it. The game is an answer of the 21. century to the question of experiencing new sexual desires.
