Why is he Watching Porn?

Erotica and pornography have been around for centuries and women have probably been asking the same question for the same length of time. Men are visually stimulated whereas women generally are not. Pornography is a manifestation of the large fantasy component in human sexuality. In the form of the Internet, videos, photographs, and magazines, it is prevalent in our society.

Some couples watch videos together to arouse sexual interest, while other people use it as a substitute instead of having a real sexual partner.

Remember, this is fantasy, not reality and so should it be for your husband. You need to ask him calmly about why he feels the need to use Internet porn and come to some sort of compromise if he is going to continue. If this is unacceptable to you, explain to him how you feel about it and that it makes you feel unloved or inadequate when he does this.

The porn industry is everywhere. You only have to watch the TV late on Saturday nights to see virtual porn. They are even making women-friendly pornography now to tap into the female market.

There is still a huge market for porn magazines, which sell thousands of magazines each month, despite the availability of it on the Internet. There are some men that become addicted to porn. There have been cases of men being disciplined at work for spending six to seven hours a day on Internet porn sites. These people need professional help to overcome their addiction.

Pornography is freely available but it is a personal choice as to whether you allow it into your home, your relationship and your life.