Get Your Ex Back after a Breakup & More than Friends Again

The idea of “just being friends” with someone you deeply care about can be horrifying.  However, if you want to keep that person in your life playing the “just friends” part can be most beneficial especially if you want to get your ex back. The hardest part of it all…you feel your ex still loves you the way she did before.

You’re not the only one confused.  It’s very likely that your ex is confused as well.  She just may not realize it.  No doubt this is frustrating for you.  The best thing you can do is to have some patience and you’ll soon be able to help your ex realize how she feels about you.

When faced with a potentially dangerous situation, it is natural for a person to go into self-preservation mode. This means your body will do whatever it needs to prevent itself from getting hurt.  Unconsciously, the mind and heart do the same.  If you see a potentially hurtful situation within a relationship, you’re going to want to end it on your terms - even if you’re still in love with them. By breaking up with that person, you create a sort of force field around yourself that will keep you from getting hurt. You know you can still keep your ex in your life as a friend and you won’t be getting hurt thanks to this invisible force field.

It’s very likely that’s what your ex has done by insisting you remain friends.  If you want things to be as they once were (being more than just friends), then you’re going to have to be the active person and make your ex know see that she’s still in love with you.  Find the side of you that she once loved and be it. That means if you were a charmer, show your ex you remember how to be that charmer. You’ll be surprised at how quickly you can get your ex realize she does still love you and your ex wants to get you back too.